Premature Ejaculation

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  1. antman455

    antman455 New Member

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    I was wondering is there any new treatments for Premature Ejaculation? I have try a few in the past, but none of them really worked. I have tried stud 100 where it numbs your penis, so you won't be sensitive. But the drawback on that is you have no feeling and I still cum fast. I have took Zoloft for the (SSRIs) Which pose to slow down cuming. Instead it made me less sexual and could not even get my penis hard. I also try a cock ring Which was a waste of time, plus it did not feel good around my penis. They do say to masturbate a few times before sex, but that never worked for me. Have you try something that have worked for you? They say when you get older, it can sometime cure itself. I do have to say when I was having sex all the time it did help me last longer. Sometimes 30 plus minutes if I am lucky. So it was always a risk when I am about to have sex. Never know if I will cum fast or not. With blow jobs I pretty much always cum fast. Now that I am not having sex as much, I am back to square one. My wife is getting older and we are not having sex as much. It really hurts me when I can not last. Now every time we have sex I cum in 2 seconds flat. Have anyone else ever cum this fast? and how did you feel about it? I have heard in some cases where the guy never had sex more then a minute. I do feel bad who never got the chance to please there woman. I have to say it makes me feel less of a man and powerless. Some woman say they don't mind. Not sure if it is true or not. The only thing that works for me to last a pretty long time is alcohol. Do you last longer every time you drink alcohol? So for now on I drink before sex, so I can last longer then seconds. It is a good feeling when you know you have please your woman. Be nice if no guys would have to experience premature ejaculation. It is always a big issue=(
     
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    I was on generic Vicodin for pain for a while and noticed it helped delay ejaculation for me, you might as your doctor what he thinks. I don't get off as fast as I use to, but I still get off a little faster than I want too. My wife says it's just right though, so I don't know.

    Have you tried pleasuring your woman with your hand or with oral? Sometimes this helps me and leaves her satisfied or pleasured.
     
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    I tend to ejacuate in less than a minute, so I at least like to bring a woman to orgasm before penetrating with digital or oral stimulation, but I hardly think that's much of a substitute. :-(
     
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    I know this is a hard topic to talk about. It is amazing how a guy can go 2-5 minutes. Don't seem long, but way longer then me. Some guys can go 30 minutes. I rather have a hard time cumming. You know my wife say she don't care that I don't last. But I doubt it is true. Yes I have pleasure my wife with my fingers and oral. But for some reason it bothers me ending it like that. I don't mind doing that first and then have sex. I prefer to have sex awhile. please myself and her. Both cumming at the end is the best way I think. It boost my mood. every time I cum fast, my mood is not as good. Just feel bad about myself. Have you try drinking? That is the only thing that works for me. Lately I have been cumming fast, before getting hard.
     
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    Have I tried drinking? Is the Pople Catholic? Ha, ha!

    Seriously, though, it doesn't help.
     
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    I sympathise with you, I tend to cum quite quickly as well. The quickest I came was in about ten seconds: as soon as I put my penis in I just felt my groin relax and was cumming before I knew it. It was really embarrassing. The feeling of my penis inside a woman's vagina is very different from anything else, obviously very pleasurable and it is very difficult for me to control when I cum. I'm amazed that some men can penetrate their partners for several minutes before cumming.

    To compensate I give a lot of oral sex and rub my erect penis around the outside of her vagina and on her clit before putting it in. This gives her pleasure and release, but sometimes the woman likes to be penetrated and it is frustrating not to be able to give that for more than a few moments without having to withdraw. It makes me a bit anxious about initiating sex, like I think if she wants to ride on top I'm not going to be able to stop her riding me to orgasm really quickly and she'll be disappointed.

    I sometimes find that if I keep withdrawing just before I climax then eventually I last longer. It takes some discipline and understanding from your partner. Also if I focus, I can sometimes stop myself from cumming but that is really hard. I've never tried pills or anything like that.
     
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    Ye Premature Ejaculation is very common problem now in our world. Because our life are so stresful & busy we don't care about our meal or food. we are not aware about our health so that is happened. & as u said you try so many thing for this, I suggest you to try Extra Time Condom which you can get easily Online on web just visit easylove.in and find here exclusive range of condoms.
     
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    I can't say that I have experience with the method, but a number of years ago, in a psych class I was attending, a sexual surrogate talked about the different problems she helped men with and one of the leading ones was PE. Apparently, there's a method that involves the man's partner stimulating the male just up to but never actually reaching orgasm. When the male is at that point, the partner firmly squeezes the man's cock in a pinch like manner, right at the coronal edge, focusing on putting pressure above and below the head of the cock. It isn't supposed to hurt but it is supposed to back a guy off of an orgasm. This is repeated over and over again and, eventually, the male can increase the time between stimulation and reaching orgasm. Again, since I have no personal experience with it, I can't say how effective it is but it was a professional who worked in conjunction with a psychologist who presented it and it was supposed to be effective. I unfortunately don't recall what the name of the method is but I'm sure if you googled it........
     
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    I have had experiences with PE, as I am sure every man has. Generally, I put myself on the quick to cum side of the scale with my wife, but on the hard to cum sometimes with other woman before my wife. Sometimes it depends on the situation and how comfortable I am with it. Two examples I can remember, first was a woman that was very sexy, I was very excited and she was guiding me into her with her hand. She took a little detour on the way in and was using my cock to rub her clit and the entrance to her vag, and it was just to much for me and I came all over her box! It was embarrassing, but actually one of the better orgasms I can remember, the stress of trying to hold back, and failing, then just trying to enjoy it, kinda a forbidden pleasure thing! I had to redeem myself by a) cleaning her up with my mouth and b) making her cum orally. After she came I was hard again, and she was still sensitive and really enjoy the fuck after when I was more normal. The second example I remember was literally start to cum upon the first thrust, and there again to redeem myself, the oral pleasure for her and by the time she was about ready to cum, I was ready to oblige her again. For me, as in the two examples there is some times a reason I cum fast, sometimes not. So to get around it I have obviously used the 'give her oral till you're ready to go again' method, works well, women are often really disappointed when you cum right away, but as long as you don't just quit and say 'thanks baby, you're don right', make an effort and get her off, and be hard again, then no probs. the other method that works for me is to pause or pull out, if I am too close to cumming, I will shove it all the way in and just hold it there, take a break, and rub her clit, or pull completely out and rub her, and let the feeling pass, then repeat till its ok to make her sticky!
     
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    The good thing about PE you can cum really fast when you are about to sleep or just to get one out right away. I love to look at porn and like that I can cum when I want to. Can every guy cum when they want to without a struggle? PE is only bad when it comes to sex for me. But if I masturbate, PE is not a bad thing.