Premature Ejaculation

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  1. GTX

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    Hello,

    I've searched in old topics but without any success.
    I have premature ejaculation. I have a girlfriend for 3 years, and i have sex 2-3 times a week. Everytime i have sex i can't last longer than 1-2 minuts, until i ejaculate. This is very frustrating for me, since i can't give an orgasm to my girlfriend for about 2 years!

    I've tried everytime all technics like: masturbating before, use condom, doing stop-and-go technic, oral sex, etc, and problem still remains.

    Probably there are some other people with the same problem as me.
    What can i do? What kind of doctor should i go? urologist? Is there any medical pills i could buy to help solving this?

    Thank you for your help.
     
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    I tend to have the same problem and I think its more a mental thing than anything else. I dont know that there is a full cure but I use a spray on topical when I want to last a long time called Indian God Lotion. Its fairly cheap and 1 spray about 45 min to an hour before intercourse and youll be able to go for an hour or so. It continues to work for like 5 hours so put it on and wash it off after say an hour and youll be good for several hours.
     
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    I've heard that Viagra will make you last longer, even if you don't have an erection problem. But it can have some side effects so I would reserch it prior.

    BTW, welcome to :sf GTX! ;) Is your screen name a reference to the Plymouth GTX?
     
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    If you tried the stop/start method and it didn't work, then you're not doing it right - not stopping soon enough or resuming action too soon.
     
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    GTX

    Personally I wouldn't use any pills or lotions for this situation.

    As BA95TA said, it is very much a mind thing.

    Just to put your mind at rest, spare a second or two to consider that early ejaculation is a GREAT sign that your body is sexually extremely responsive and fit. Give yourself a big pat on the back for that mate! Seriously !!

    Picking up on a just a couple of points you made:

    (1) OK you've tried masturbating before? Well have you tried for 2 or 3 pre-intercourse ejaculations? If not you should. You might find that then you can stay hard for a lot longer before climaxing.

    (2) No orgasm for your partner for 2 years? Even if you had not attempted intercourse for the last 2 years, that is no reason for your partner to miss out on orgasms. There are many many ways for women to orgasm without intercourse.

    Personally I would change the focus on this situation.

    I would concentrate on giving your partner orgasms without intercourse in the first instance.

    Achieving that will take the pressure of you.

    If you can give her an orgasm or two before intercourse, you will have the comfort of knowing that you have no pressure on you should you then go for full penetrative sex.

    And that relaxation might just be enough to let you go on for longer than you anticipated.
     
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    Have you and your gf tried other ways for her to have an orgasm besides the old in-out?
     
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