Premature Ejaculation, HUUGE PROBLEM help!

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  1. geestonboy11

    geestonboy11 New Member

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    Me and my girlfriend have been together over a year, just started havign sex about 3 months ago and I just cannot last, luckily were so close or else shed have me gone in no time. I can NEVER last more than 2 minuites. Ive tried ManDelay and nothing, and i really dont think pills will work. Does anyone have any advice or anything that they or theyre partner has used and have got real results from.

    Thanks!
     
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    I can help because I had that problem

    I had the same problem. Your girlfriend is going to have to let you take your time and you need to have sex regular. First you need to have a lot of foreplay. If your penis is used to being touched before you enter her it is not going to get such a shock. Then you can enter her and go slow. When you feel yourself getting close, stop. Wait until it subsides, just kiss her, play with her breast or something. Then when you feel you can start thrusting again do it easy until you get close again. Each time you do this it gets easier to hold back. You always need to go slow until you get use to it. After a while you can speed up. Each time you have sex it will get easier to last longer. After several times at this you can really pound her. I had this problem and after doing this I could last an hour or longer. I might have to stop a couple of times and then start back but I learned when to stop so I wouldn't cum. Try this and after about a month let me know how your doing.
     
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    Ah man that sounds like a grand idea, thanks
     
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    Try and take controlled breaths and don't tighten up your muscles...especially in the legs. Don't think about it too much, as your mind will mess with you. If you are putting pressure on yourself, you are making it harder on yourself.
     
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    Foreplay, And a lot of it,
    That should includes a lot of oral sex
    on your part. At least make her have an orgasm
    using oral sex. Their is a lot more to sex
    than just fucking. and you are not likely to cum
    while you are giving her head, and She will love it.
     
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    The best way is to practice masturbation, taking yourself close to the limit and then backing off, and then doing this for as long as you can stand. Once you get used to getting close, and relaxing the sexual tension, then you can transfer this to intercourse.

    When you're married for decades, you get control, but even then things sometimes go out of control and I do exactly the same thing. If I feel I'm getting too close I slow down, stop, squeeze my PC muscle (which I exercise every day) and, voila, arousal tamed I can go on for another several minutes. My wife is used to me, and knows what I am doing.

    The other thing is that in sex, a woman always comes first. Oral sex on a woman is sublime, go down on your partner and help her to orgasm first. She'll love it and you'll love it too.
     
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    I'd chime in, but these guys have already said it all. :)
     
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    you can easily overcome premature ejaculation if you want.

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    Let me reassure you first that your problem is nothing to be embarrassed about. It is a fairly common problem. The causes are widely varied. It maybe as a result of the sexual conditioning that comes through masturbation. It can also be the result of improper lovemaking techniques. Another factor might be your fitness level and the quality of your diet.

    Whatever is the cause, I can assure you that it is very easy to overcome. Have you heard of tantric sex before? Well these practices, like yoga, have their origin in the Orient. But their methods are fully supported by science. The main key to lasting as long as you want is keeping your stomach and genital muscles relaxed.

    Briefly, you need to take the following steps:

    1. Make sure your fitness level is ok.

    2. Take a critical look at your nutrition. Eat a healthy mix of complex carbohydrates, lean protein, and lots of fruits, vegetables, and fibers.

    3. Next, you need to start training with a sound material on tantric sex. It will show you everything you need to know regarding foreplay, relaxation of genital muscles and satisfying your woman anytime you wish. Indeed, by the end of your training, you'd be lasting for an hour or two at a stretch.

    I strongly recommend you get these three materials right away. The first is an ebook and audio guide on tantric sex, and the second one teaches everything you need to know about lovemaking in general. Third addresses premature ejaculation specifically. Go straight to my blog. You will see them under the HOT SEX ITEMS list.

    Your sex life is too important for you to remain uncertain about it for too long. I hope this reply has been helpful.

    Jennifer.

    http://jennifer-pulaski.blogspot.com
     
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    Really not trustin the e-book, ive debated alot actually on getting that. And just dont know if its a scam or what
     
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    I wouldn't either, geestonboy11. No offense, juicyjenny. :) After all, that's what these forums are for. You should be able to get all the help you need here, and through some good searches on Google.
     
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    Yeah too much stuff on the internet now a days is trying to sell something, so I got the wonderful idea of a forum, hear some personal sucess stories, searched it found this and what a help its been
     
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    Don't smoke cigarettes. They reduce your ability to respirate properly, therefore lessening your ability to relax. It makes a BIG difference.
     
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    Haha really curious how you know im a smoker
     
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    If you're having sex problems, then it's almost sure you're a smoker. You have a choice, continue smoking or give it up and enjoy good sex. Later in life, you'll lose the ability to have an erection (viagra doesn't help smokers) and you won't be able to have sex at all. So do what you can now, because your sex life IS limited.
     
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    Littleman409 you are the man, you have fucking savedmy life, I've been so stressed out about this shit, today i just took it slow at first, relazxed, put some Wu-Tang on, and just fucking tok it easy at first, didnt even cum in prolly 2 hours of interaction, thank you so much.
     
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    How late in life? I'm 61, a smoker, and I've had sex every day for the past 2-3 weeks.
     
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    You're very lucky, trust me. Smoking is bad for the vascular system, at worst people have amputations above the knees from gangrene resulting from bad circulation. Having erections is vascular, so smoking and anticipating having a long and healthy sex life is like playing Russian roulette with five chambers loaded. You've been lucky, you've got the one empty chamber. Me, I seen what smoking does and I wouldn't take the chance!
     
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    I seen what smoking does and its made my life the best it can be! Thank you Marlboro, for making my life 100% love oriented!

    And thank you littleman, smallpackage, and cbrmale
     
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    Make sure you continue to smoke, don't ever give up smoking, it's good for your health as well as your sex life, your penis will grow much stronger & longer.

    Thank you government for taxing on cigarettes!!!
     
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    It's like the opposite for me. I'm glad you're set now. It's actually hard for me to cum. I mean, I can fully control it. I made a girl orgasm 8 times to my one; and my ensuing climax is definitely is too much to handle. I take stimulation 10 fold.
     
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