Premature AND Delayed ejaculation?

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  1. twoquestions

    twoquestions New Member

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    Ok, so here's the deal. Whenever I don't wear a condom, I last all of 3-4 minutes. But when I DO wear a condom I last so long, that I lose interest, and don't get off.

    My only solution to this as of yet is to wear a condom for a while, and then take it off, but beyond the awkwardness of this, there's also the problem of unprotected sex.

    Any suggestions?
     
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    vampire raver New Member

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    Is this your first sex partner,

    How long have you been having sex

    How old are you

    tell me this and I can help a little more
     
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    This is not my first sex partner, though this is the first partner that I've ever not used a condom with.

    I'm 26, and have been active since I was 15
     
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    well I am not sure then,

    sorry the only advice that could be helpful is to masturbate before having sex, a few hours before sex and then have sex without a condom just make sure she is using some other sort of protection.

    Try a little lube at the tip of the condom before you put it on, You could try a vibrating cock ring

    How long does it take you to masturbate on average;
    If you are quick, you can train yourself to last longer by not letting yourself cum as quick
     
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    Masturbation usually lasts me about 10-15 minutes...which I presume is fairly average?
     
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    yeah that is pretty normal, well you could try the other ideas

    plus you can, when not using a condom, think about something else if you want to last longer when having sex

    also I just realize that you said this is the first time you have had sex with out a condom, it may just take a little time to get use to how pleasurable it is, you may just want to wait until you are use to the sensation
     
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    Well...I guess for now I'll just give it more time...really don't have anything else to try...lol.

    Thanks for the help!
     
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    No problem good luck and keep me updated there will be more posts tomorrow too, so I am not the only one with advice

    So check back tomorrow