pregnant or not?

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  1. longlands

    longlands New Member

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    i ahd sex with my girl the other day without protection but i dont think that i cummed....... but she could feel it and i dont think i cummed but isthere still a chance of her being pregnant??

    she said to me she comes on in a weeks time if she doesnt coem on does that mean your pregnant ???? if u do come on it means u rnt

    am i right

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    Yes, she could be pregnant. The best thing to do is see a Dr and find out for sure. Is she on any type of birth control?
     
  3. longlands

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    no shes not but....

    if hses not on in a week then does that mean shes pregnant?
     
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    Anytime you have sex without any form of protection, you run the risk of pregnancy. I don't care what time of day, what day of the month. There's always that risk. If you by chance escape pregnancy this time, i strongly suggest you look into condoms, the pill, or some other form of birth control.
     
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    what if she is then what can i do ?
     
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    Welll..that's a whole other topic. How old are you and your girlfriend?
     
  7. Puss_in_boots

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    First of all you need to know for sure. Buy a pregnancy test.
     
  8. longlands

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    shes 17 and im 18
     
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    what fi shes pregnant then what do i do if the pregnant test comes out negative
     
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    If you get a negative test but still think she's pregnant, take her to a local Planned Parenthood, where they can do a more comprehensive test, usually for free or cheap.
     
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    if she coems on her periods in a weeks time odd does that mean shes not pregnant?
     
  12. Halogen

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    If she gets her period, she's not pregnant.
     
  13. melicious

    melicious The Old Maid
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    How old are you? What is going on in our sex education for people not to know the answer to this BEFORE they engage in sex??? I have so many problems with this. Sigh.

    No, it doesn't mean she's pregnant if her cycle doesn't start the day she thinks it's going to start. I recomment that you and she wait a bit and then take a test at home. During that time of waiting, and stress and worry, consider all the reasons why using protection is important, and how your life is going to change if this one time means you are becoming a parent.

    In my opinion.... if you do not know the answer to this question, you should not be engaging in sex yet. It's not a damn game. You first KNOW how pregnancy occurs, how disease is spread, and how to prevent both.

    For the record, it's cum, cumming, came. And if you aren't sure you did, she certainly won't know.
     
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    First of all don't panic. Also try typing in complete sentences and with proper grammar and spelling. It makes it much easier for the members of this adult forum to read your posts. If the test comes out positive then you and your girlfriend will have to decide together what it best for the both of you. Anyone who makes the choice to engage in sexual intercourse should be willing to face any possible consequences of their actions. It's called being an adult.

    If the test comes out negative I'd suggest you breathe a sigh of relief and get your girlfriend on some form of birth control immediately, and that you should buy a supply of condoms. If the idea of a crying baby waking you up in the middle of the night appeals to you less than the loss of feeling from using a condom, then you should start acting responsibly and use condoms.
     
  15. Halogen

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    Took the words right out of my mouth, melicious. 18 years old and still not the slightest clue about sex or the repercussions? Methinks someone should educate themselves a bit before continuing to be sexually active.

    And what HAS happened to sex ed in schools? Aye yi yi.
     
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    I also suggest some serious sex education.....
     
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    Yeah, seriously. I'd say first of all stop panicing and find out. And seriously learn about sex, I don't understand why you don't know this already.
     
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    I doubt he is 18. I have a hard time believing that an 18 year old doesn't know that. I'd guess more like 12 (no offense).
     
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    I know what you mean though. How could you NOT know that kind of stuff at that age??? Lordy loo
     
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    Also, how on earth can you not know if you came or not???