Ok, there's this girl, a year younger than me (18 thank god), i went with her to her prom. She is decent looking, etc, and i could tell she was attracted to me, but i wasnt attracted to her romantically or anything for a relationship or anything like that. I'm very inexperienced. I have never had a female touch my penis. Ok, that being said, i started seeing her two weeks ago. At first it was just casual, we would see a movie, make out, etc, then i nudged her hand into my jeans and she started to stroke my penis. She was very bad at it, it bothered quite a bit. The movie was bad so we left the theater early and i dropped her off. This time we really didnt have any plans, so i drove to the beach with her at night, parked and we started making out. we moved to the backseat. she started reaching for my penis again, so i dropped my pants. It was feeling good, then she asked me if i wanted her to go down on me. I was a bit surprised, i shouldnt have been, but ive never been in this kind of situation. Before she got to it, i started to lose my erection, and i psyched myself out. I know for a fact that she has never been with another guy because she is close friends with my best friends girlfriend, so she is also inexperienced, but eager. I was talking to her today and she was telling me that she wanted to finish what we started the other night really badly. When I went to unbutton her jeans as i made a move to finger her, she simply said she wasnt comfortable about it, so i respected that. But when we were talking she mentioned it, and i would want to try that anyway. I dont have difficulty getting erections. I get them when i wake up, during classes at the university(FIU...miami....fine cuban/latina girls everywhere...nuff said), i struggle to stuff it down my pant leg or point it up vertically under my belt, and when i masturbate at home I am capable of very hard sustained erections. For some reason it decided to go limp right when she was going to administer the blowjob. Do you guys have any advice? I talked about it to my best friend, and i felt really depressed, as it was my first time getting close to something exciting like that and i blew it. Is there anything i should do to clear my head a bit? Should I abstain from masturbating for a while to build up a little more vigor and desire for that kind of pleasure?