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  1. PA Slut

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    Power, I love to have sex with married men or sex with guys that are in a steady relationship, I feel it gives me power to prove I can make them cheat, and they keep coming back for more, the best part is I know most of their wives or girlfriends. How do you feel about this? Now you see why I call myself PA Slut.
     
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    I feel this way...

    Married men are a NO GO area unless their wives agree of course...do unto other etc

    If you were to marry a guy and really really love him and then he got into this power game with marred women...

    how would you feel....?

    I dont do married men....cos I wouldnt want a woman doing my man..

    There is no power in that at all!!
     
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    I met a gorgeous man...he is very powerful himself...

    He was very drawn to me...mentally and spiritually I would say as well as physically. I said to him that I could see there was a connection. But he has a lovely woman, who adores him...

    So when he says to me "I would love to learn to fly on your broomstick"...I reply "yeah in the next life maybe".....

    I wouldnt hurt his woman for the world....i stay away from him...

    Cos I try and put myself in her shoes....I empathise...

    I try to be a good person.....if I can...
     
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    Shit Scorp, you'd better post again, you are at 666 right now! Eeek!
     
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    Haha i did....thanks girl!!!!!!!!

    Didnt notice but must have know cos I was FAST to make another post

    lol

    How are you?? I was thinking of you earlier?
     
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    I don't have a problem with 'open marriages', swining, group sex, etc. If a man is looking to have sex outside his marriage, and he seeks you out, that's one thing.

    For you to get off on the fact that you're intentionally pulling a man from his marriage or commited relationship simply to feed your own self worth is kind of sickening, and frankly pathetic. You're abusing the sexual power that you have been blessed with for the purpose of earning some self acceptance.

    Truly powerful women don't need to manipulate a man's sexuality to secure their sexual confidence.

    You need help.
     
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    I so agree NK

    There is far more power in walking away from something you may do harm to ,,,,

    Thankfully I believe in karma.....everything comes around full circle in the end...

    Mind what you are putting out there people...for it will truly catch up with you....

    For sure!


    And yes help indeed......there are tons of good therapists out there...

    heal well!!!
     
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    Anyone who's truly a strong person will never have a need to manipulate others, or gleefuly wrong them, just to bolster their own sense of worth. That is an inferiority complex. And in this caes... a filthy one.
     
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    I would seriously steer away from that. I wouldn't want my man having sex with someone else.

    Unless it's a pre-planned threesome.
     
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    I had sex with a man who was living with another woman... but it wasn't my intention to just make him cheat. We fell in love long before we ever slept together. And we hurt the other woman badly, years later i still feel bad about that.

    I would never/could never intentionally have sex with someone in a committed relationship just in order to make him cheat and nothing else... imho its mean, spiteful, insecure, selfish, and immature.... and even though it wasnt my intention to pull him out of a relationship, i was all of those things as well
     
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    Yes HardRocker, i have worked with people like this before...its indicative of very low self esteem...

    Also PA you seemed to have missed the most important point here....to be powerful, we dont give it all away...and as the man said, there is no need to manipulate others.....this comes from a place of fear, not power.

    To own power we have to retain some....not give it all away. That is what empowerment is.

    There is power in being whole and decent as well as being sexual

    I feel you need to find the balance...

    And cant help but notice.....there isnt one positive response to your post....?

    Do you really think men respect or even admire a woman who is this free to give it away...

    Of course they dont!!
     
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    I will have to side With all the ladies above.
    I think NaughtyKnickers and Sexy Scorp said it
    Some older married Men are easy targets, So
    I fail to see how that can give you a power trip.
    Why don't you go for the richest or the most popular
    single Man or Woman in in your area and see
    if you can win them over by giving them better
    sex than they can get anywhere else.
    In my mind that would be a real power trip
    At the present you are what is known simply
    as a HOMEWRECKER and thats not good.
    And I may add that somewhere at somtime
    your lifestyle will catch up with you.


    Hiker:sf
     
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    Right on Big.....right on man!

    I really have come to detest the woman who tries to steal other womens' men...

    Homewreckers indeed....uuugghhh!!!
     
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    Thank You

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    I emphasise with PA Slut but being male :

    Between the ages of 18 and 20, I went through a stage of wanting to pull the girlfriends of my mates. I succeded several times (almost every time I tried it) and I was so devious that I retained the friendship of my mates. I got a hell of a kick out of that at the time. OK not pulling older married folks but a similar situation.

    Now to share the true picture with you all:

    At that young age, I felt a desperate need to prove to myself that I could pull women. I felt very insecure and very jealous of my mates that had girlfriends when I did not. That was my way of building my great lack of confidence and self esteem.

    Now, 20 years down the line, I am not at all proud of what I did back then.

    I would never do the same again.

    It is I think an activity that folks engage in when suffering from a crushed self image. That was certainly my situation at that time.
     
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    Wow, Brad, thank you for sharing and being so candid. We've all gone through rather unscrupulous 'funk's for all different reasons, you seem to have grown tremendously since, good for you.
    That just isn't a healthy place to be in, and I'm glad for you, and your mates, that you found a better way for yourself. :tup
     
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    Hopefully age brings wisdom and lessons....as it did with Brad !

    I s'pose the time to really worry is if you are still behaving this way in your 30s and 40s and if you are a parent and still living this way...then you probably need intense therapy...

    :(
     
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    ^ I agree fully upon this post. Smart one this one.
     
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    Any woman who purposely sets out to ruin a another woman's marriage and cause children to have a broken home really don't have a nice future to look forward to.I don't understand your way of thinking.I think I would be a little embarrassed to have people to know I was this devious
     
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    I don't think it makes you powerful seducing weak men.
     
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