I'm curious to know what people think about power games in sex. For instance, one thing that hugely turns me on is for my girlfriend to lay on the bed (or kneel on the floor) and take my penis in her mouth, then I hold onto her head and basically shag her mouth until I come. This doesn't particularly turn her on, but she does it because I enjoy it so much. Outside of the bedroom we have an amazing relationship, we've been together for years and couldn't imagine being apart. These kind of 'power games' don't seem to have any sort of negative impact on that, for us at least. And of course we have plenty of amazing sex in more normal ways (which she enjoys more), but for me the above sort of thing is the ultimate turn-on. Just curious to know what people thought. No doubt I'll get lots of replies calling me a sicko, but there must be a fair few guys out there for whom this kind of thing is a fantasy. I'd be interested to hear a woman's perspective too!