Posting private/unaware pics - kinda douchey?

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  1. Belasarius

    Belasarius New Member

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    Does anyone else find it kind of a d-bag move when fellas post images of their wives/girl friends that are "unaware" or that were obviously not meant for public consumption? This seems to be very prevalent on a lot of amateur pic post pages (newbienudes, wifelovers etc). I have no problem with it if both parties are cool with it. If exhibitionism is your thing, than do your thing. But how many times have we seen those pics of someones wife or girlfriend sucking on the dudes wiener in where she looks clueless that he's snapping pics or just totally not into it? Or the wife getting changed or getting out of the shower? Really? Not cool. And once its out there, there is NO taking it back. It also strikes me as being a severe breach of trust in a relationship.

    I dunno, my 2ยข

    Your thoughts?
     
  2. Texas_Red

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    Yeah, I pretty much agree. Posting someone's pics without their consent is a complete shitstain move.
     
  3. Meee

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    It's been addressed here

     
  4. almostthere

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    Agreed,
    Thats why i left FB. Same shit. Got tired of seeing pix of me drunk at the beach on my firiends pages
     
  5. Cappy_Dick

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    The thing is, here, it is specifically against the rules.

    xx
     
  6. AtkCCC

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    Way NOT COOL!
     
  7. Belasarius

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    I wasnt suggesting that anyone did it here. Just making a point is all.
     
  8. Meow

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    I think that if you do that sort of stuff you should be behind bars...it's just not right.
    It is the lowest form of life as far as I am concerned.
     
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    It is not "kind of douchy". It is severely wrong.
     
  10. Pornfan121

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    I agree with meow. It should be illegal. It's totally wrong. It makes me sick. I have never seen it personally on FB, but I'm sure it exists. Another sex forum site I'm on, it never happens. Some sites aren't run right.
     
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    I agree, a total low life move, even if it is an ex that ended bitterly. I would never consider posting any pic my wife sends me, and that includes the ones that are positively not identifiable. It is just a trust that what we exchange is for each other.
     
  12. htoad

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    I also think it is wrong. I cannot see saying that you love someone and then doing something like that. It is more of a sign of using someone else for your own gratification.
     
  13. alwaystry

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    Yeah , it's a d bag thing to do. It is wrong , however I do understand wwanting to hear some outside your circle thoughts on pics of your other but its not right to do.
     
  14. Silverfox

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    Yeah, I've seen these before. It's absolutely wrong. It should be criminal. It's the complete disregard for another's rights, an intrusion and abuse, just like in the "real" world. As we all know, once their on the web they'll be there forever. What if the person lost a job because an employer, or future employer, saw the pictures. That happens folks. What if the pictures get moved to another site. Their now completely out of control. What if some stalker finds them, learns where the object of the picture lives, and makes a visit. The poster of the pictures has now just been made, at least partially, responsible for what happens. It goes beyond just petty, its not just unfair, it can be disastrous.