Post Masturbation "Crash"

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  1. kxkx

    kxkx New Member

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    anyone know what i'm talking about? sometimes i'll masturbate and do something different like anal stimulation or something and then as soon as i orgasm i feel really weird about what i did because of how un-horny i got. i'm assuming this is normal but do any of you other guys know the feeling?
     
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    That makes sense. Having something in your rectum isn't normally comfortable unless you're sexually aroused. And if you have ambivalent feelings about anal stimualtion (maybe you enjoy it a lot, but a part of you still thinks of it as "dirty" or "taboo"), that could give a person a case of the heebie-jeebies once your mind is no longer hyperfocused on sensations of sexual pleasure.

    Sounds normal to me.
     
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    Thats all part of experimentation. You try something. You like it or you don't. I wouldn't worry about it. There's still a lot of guilt attached to male anal play ie: if you like it you must be a homo and such crap. So relax.
     
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    I had a bumper sticker once that said SCREW GUILT! That I live by.
     
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    i feel like that too i feel all weird afer i masturbate
     
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    I get that too, depending on what I was doing or what I was doing it too. Often times afterwards I feel like "oh shit, I wasted so much time" as well. But usually afterwards I still enjoy it!
     
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    :lol
    I feel bad about wasting time like that, too. Clearly one drawback of being able to have multiples. :eek:
     
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    Haha, I've had it where after I'm done, I go clean myself up and do whatever for a bit. Come back up to my computer, and whatever I was looking at is still running, and then I feel like, and end up going again. Not multiple immediate orgasms, but I can defeinately go more than once in a fairly short period of time!
     
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    I guess that "crash" just comes with the territory of anal play when it's new to you. Usually when I'm about to come I'll finger a bit deeper than when I'm just getting started, or I'll lick some fingers on my free hand and use them to rub my asshole, but I never really feel guilty about it or anything. I get a different kind of "crash" though. If I really dedicate some time to a masturbation session - getting close to climax and backing off a few times, light stroking, anal play, etc. - then it usually lasts at least 30 minutes, and the orgasm is so intense that I just feel sleepy immediately afterwards. Sometimes I'll just fall asleep nude, covered in come because I'm too worn out to clean up. :D
     
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    I don't do the anal thing and I crash really hard for about five minutes after. It's like I want absolutely nothing to do with it at all. One thing that'll really intensify it is knowing there's a phone sex charge about to be added to the phone bill. :D