positions for 'virgins?'

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  1. x_lascivious

    x_lascivious New Member

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    Hi SFers! I`m new here so I don`t really know what`s going on and who`s who. But I was surprised I`d find a forum that would answer my questions :D so expect to see me around!

    Well here`s my situation, I was a virgin a couple of days ago but I lost it to my current boyfriend. I thought that sex would be easy but it wasn`t! I did expect it to hurt but he made sure I was wet before he put it in, yet it hurt like a b*tch. :( I don`t know if he`s too big or I`m too tight or it`s just normal for it to hurt like that, but it wasn`t comfortable. The only position I somewhat liked(I didn`t enjoy the experience)was missionary. We tried doggy style, me on top, and it hurt even more. We went at it for 45 minutes and he didn`t cum either. I felt so bad because I really wanted to please him but it just HURT. By the way, his penis is 6 inches long, that`s normal isn`t it? So I`m guessing it`s me...

    Anyone know any positions that cause the least pain? Or any tips for me at all? Thanks so much! :)
     
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    uuumm o.k i'ma virgin also and the only way i can remotely relate to ur pain was when i tried a tampon on for the first time.

    What i'm tryin to say is that sex doesn't come with instructions so chill out if u didn't get the results u wanted.Maby next time u guys could take it a lil slower and if u wanted to kno about sex u came to the right place! Once u do missionary like after ur 3rd time i'm sure u wont feel as much as u did a few days ago. yes 6 inch is about the normal size so try not to go bigger, at least not yet.

    Sex is about loosening up and comunication, if u were in pain then dont try to do it doggy-style or ur gonna end up on ur face. If something wrong, stop for a minute, and when it subsides, continue.
     
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    x_lascivious New Member

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    Thanks for the reply but let me clarify, after a few minutes in the missionary position the pain subsided, so we decided to try out more positions but it hurt even more so that`s what confused me...
     
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    u just need to give ur-self and ur body time to get use to it. As long as u werent bleeding profusively then i say nuttin wrong, I guess u can try...when he puts it in there let him keep it in there and move it around a bit, to sort of "strech it out" also make sure ur muscles relax when he penetrates u, cuz if ur too nervous its gonna hurt more.
     
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    tha first time i had sex i memba that tha easiest way for me was for me to b on topn, so in tha case u can control tha depth, and also u can control tha speed in which u feel most comfortable with. u have r tha boss of tha whole thing which makes u loosen up, and relax ur muscles. thas tha most easiest and tha most comfortable way for virgins who r losing it. it still will hurt, since its ur first time. but it feels better as u continue on. :sex
     
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    Damn I love fucking Virgo_bytchXXX! Shes one good fuck!
     
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    is it really necessary to make those sorts of comments after her every post? She may very will be a 'good fuck', however one of the reasons I enjoy coming to these forums is because most replies to topics are informative and constructive. It would be good if it could be kept that way.

    jo
     
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    dont let his lil comments bother u, they arent to u. so dun wry bout nothing. k?
     
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    main tip... RELAX... it hurts if your tense....that and get some decent lube, even if you are wet enough naturally lube is a godsend
     
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