Positions for the smaller cock.

Discussion in 'Sex and Relationships' started by Animularisen, Sep 21, 2008.

  1. Animularisen

    Animularisen New Member

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    Can someone tell me some other positions other then on top, missionary, lotus and the knees over the shoulders that I can do with my boyfriend. He's only about a 5, which isn't bad for feeling but it's like impossible to do doggy or flat doggy/reverse missionary

    Or if anyone knows how to do doggy with a smaller cock?
     
  2. Poky

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    In my opinion, there shouldn't be a problem doing it doggy style, regardless if he is 5 inches, it just means he can't take the long strokes and pump you into the next room. Try sitting on the edge of the bed, making sure your pussy is right at the edge and let him hold your legs up as if he were going to put them on his shoulders. Best thing you can do though is experiment and see what works and what doesn't. There are a lot of positions our there and you can find most of them on the net, but keep in mind that some can be hazordous while others maybe impossible due to physical limitations (i.e. being not so limber).. Like I said, experiment and see what works for you..
     
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    I have to agree with Poky. My husband is not gigantic and we do doggie all the time. In fact, after me on top, its my favorite position. Also try and very funny what Poky said,

    LMAO "into the next room." But that is what FB are for!

    Good luck and keep trying.

    Vicki
     
  4. FlirtyChick

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    Buns up kneeling, knees at shoulder width or wider, elbows and face on the bed. Works great for us and my 5.5.
     
  6. Animularisen

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    Yeah, he did just keep falling out... he's the one who gave up tbh, thing is, all women are different and we're positioned slightly different down there like men are sized. I guess my pussy is further forward... unless it's because I'm a bigger girl. I'll keep trying... it just seems to embarrass him somewhat, =( I love his cock, 5 is enough for me anyday =D
     
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    You have got the right attitude which is solving half the issue straight up! I cannot speak for the other ladies here, but slipping out happens. Face it, we are wet and they are going at it. If it happens, just help him get back in, and keep going. No need for him to be embarrassed!!!!!
     
  8. vickisam

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    FC is right. You have a great attitude and keep conveying that to him. Men are fucked up about size. (ok, for the most part.) I have had guys fall out of me too. A guy did me with a monster cock not too long ago. It was just ok. problem was he did not know how to use it. Hubby had to show him how its done, to me anyway. (and hubby does not have a monster by any stretch of the imagination!!!!) :)

    My point is, like you said, if it is enough for you, convey that to him, and keep doing it. Sometimes bite the bullet and suck his cock where he is about to cum then let him in you so he does cums. You may not cum but it will build his confidence.

    Keep trying, one day you two will get into a groove and never look back!

    Good luck

    V
     
  9. bmpa

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    ahhh women fucked up about size just as much as men
     
  10. Puss_in_boots

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    No they're not.
     
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    There are many many positions, regardless of the size of him, not sure how limper you are, but one of my favorite positions, although it can get a little sore on your arms is for you to just keep your calfs on the bed, lean back (depending on how tall the bed is) and hold yourself up by your arms. So basically the rest of your body is off the bed, makes for some deep penatration.
    Best of luck!!
     
  12. bmpa

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    yes they are

    I never knew the "importance" of penis size untill I heard women talk about it. Sure guys joke around about it but that's just stupid / drunken talk . I have heard women and read women post about it on many boards on the interent. You can even go to many that have a sex section and read the posts that women say and I will guarentee you will see posts about the "perfect size" and the miminum size they would accept:eyes or even someones comments about some sex and the city episode talking about penis size and stating thats what women do when they talk together and how that prooves that size matters etc etc etc.

    so basically guys care or are fucked up about penis size because women care or are fucked up about penis size. we hear women talk about it and say what size they dislike etc etc.


    Why don't we focus on how we use it instead of size? Because size is what is most talk about by girls. If more focus was put on technique then things would be different but that is not the case. I can't even count the amount of times I have heard women say "ever since I have been with my new bf I noticed that size matters" because he is bigger than her last bf....never mind the fact that size may play a little factor and his technique is the KEY factor.



    the most common misconception I find is that guy just want to be the biggest the girl has had....NO we just want to know that what we got can please the girl we like. We don't want to pull down our pants and be a part of a story the girl is going to say to people about how we were not up to her size expectations....


    bottom line guys care because we hear women care and women care about their body parts because they hear guys care. for example why do guys care about height? because we hear women state their height requirements. everyone has an EGO and nobody likes to hear that something about their body is a turnoff.

    EDIT: you can even look into the "length or thick" thread many stated their requirement s there that contradict their comment s here like vickisam for example
     
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    I never said that women aren't concerned about penis size. I was simply stating the fact that men are much more concerned about size than women. My original post was based on the fact that 99% of the penis size threads on this forum have been posted by men. If you have any doubt, feel free to take advantage of our search feature.
     
  14. bmpa

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    I wasn't just talking about this forum but in general

    I am saying that men are just as concerned with penis as women. men may be the ones making the threads here but who are the ones making the sometimes offensive posts / requirments? women
     
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    Just what is it that you're attempting to do here? It is not just my opinion, but a fact, that men are much more (not just as) concerned about penis size than women. I don't understand why you find this so hard to accept. Most women really do not want to be pounded by a ten-inch monster cock. Naturally, some women do, but the percentage of women who prefer monster cocks about the same as the percentage of men who actually have them.

    Can you give us an example of a post or comment made by a woman with regards to penis size that you consider offensive?
     
  16. bmpa

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    I am not just talking about some girl wanting a monster penis there are also girls that say they don't want a huge one but they want one that is "decent sized" or they mention the size like 7' and nothing under 6 etc etc

    cause and effect
     
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    Okay, then. Why do you consider it "offensive" for a woman to have any preference at all with regards to penis size?

    We get a lot of penis size threads posted here by young, insecure men who are convinced that penis size (or more specifically, length) is the key to satisfying a woman. We tell them that as long as they have average-sized equipment then they should have nothing to worry about. The average vagina is 5.5 inches long, which also happens to be the average length of the average penis. The problem is that these young guys (many of whom happen to be virgins) have made the mistake of basing their real-life sexual expectations on what they've seen in porn.
     
  18. bmpa

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    I understand what you are saying some guys may get it from porn but I assure you many get it from hearing and reading what women say about the subject. Many guys know porn is a fantasy.

    I don't find it offensive if a girl has a preference for a size but please define preference...because it seems many women don't know what that is because when someone does not meet that then it's a red flag / deal breaker and deems him useless

    I can't give you an example here since I did not do a search but there are many on other boards...but I will search here when i have time
     
  19. heelfetish

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    Please, save yourself the time. There may be some shallow, superficial people on the other forums you visit, but that's the best thing about :sf: the quality of character of our regular posters.

    :sf is a haven for open discussion on various topics, not a place to gather ammunition to further your preconceived notions on a topic. It is unfair to come here with an agenda and then try to provoke argument to prove yourself right.

    So leave your past experiences where they lay, and join the discussions here with an open mind. I'm sure you will have a much better time that way. :)
     
  20. Animularisen

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    heh it looks like a fight broke out whilst i was away.

    I haven't yet tried doggy again with my bf. With that position I feel insecure as I dislike my bum... well not my bum just the way you can see everything in that position but when I do get into the position I ignore it and get all most into the splits to get down enough for him to enter me... lol I arch my bum up as well, so my back is so arched.... I'm almost doing a forward roll lol.

    Thing is, if he enters me... I think he's that nervous about falling out he doesn't even feel anything when he's in me... i know we managed to do flat doggy/reverse missionary but he said he felt nothing in that position really.

    I'll try that Calves on the bed only position altho I think I've done that. Does the guy stay on his knees or sit on his bum for it? lol My boyfriend tends to sit on his bum so i then just end up sitting on him.