Porn ?

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  1. Mr n Mrs Smyth

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    (Mrs) Well Many a time ive complained about Mr S Watching porn,
    But this morning when he came home from work, While he thought i was still asleep,
    I woke up and caught a glimpse of him pleasuring himself over it,
    I actually was really aroused and got wet, But he still doesnt know i saw him...
    Mainly cause i didnt tell him hehe
    But i do admit it made me wanna get my rabbit out and play.

    I just wish he would involve me in it when he watches it

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    Well, I could suggest that the next time that happens, and he is pleasuring himself to his porn, take over for him. Hand, then other things. Have fun with it and surprise him.
     
  3. Mr n Mrs Smyth

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    (Mrs) Thanks for the suggestion but i doubt it would happen hunny, u see Mr S only watches it when im not around or when im sleeping its actually a bit depressing.
     
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    Does he keep you satisfied? If so, I don't see the problem.
     
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    Yeah, watching porn when your not around is probably his way of having 'him' time. As long as he's still sleeping with you, it's no big deal, it would seem.
     
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    In the very first sentence of this post you said you've complained about him watching porn. Gee, do ya think that is why he doesn't want you to know he's watching it?

    And if you were turned on by it why did you come to post about it and then say instead of not talking to him about it?

    Mr. S has logged in since you started this thread. I am curious as to why he hasn't responded. I wonder how he feels about this.

    Ya know, I hate to say it, girl, but you have to put on your big girl panties and start communicating with your old man.

    If you are turned on by something, TELL HIM! And for the love of god, don't judge him for watching porn, it ain't nothing but a thing.
     
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    perhaps its not the porn its self, but that you don't feel included in his self pleasure, and you want to be, likely because you give each other such pleasure. I have felt before that perhaps I was missing out on some fun when I found my love watching porn with out me. He gave you advice earlier, and I plan to test his theory ^_^ As liberated as you seem to be, I cant imagine that you are anti-porn all by itself. CL has a point tho (she often does, I noticed) Communication is the key to all things. I doesn't matter if its " I like sugar in my coffee" "do it again, harder" or as simple as a whimper in the right direction. And it should be done in good faith, with open mind, heart, and maybe open pants ^_^
     
  8. Mr n Mrs Smyth

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    (Him) I haven't responded because I didn't see it to be honest, but in her post she is saying she HAS complained before BUT she now finds it a turn on that i'm having a little me time while she sleeps. Sometimes after a hard nights work it's just a release you can have when your all unclean and don't want to initiate anything with your partner before you've had a bath. I'll always watch porn just as i'll always eat a sweets or indulge in a pot noodle now and again. It's a lazy pleasure. I want to be nothing but clean and amazing when making love to Mrs S

    For the record she does comunicate with me CBL lol whether she does it through here or while we lay together bothers me not, as long as she is comfortable. In this case it's through here. She knows im going to read this,:lol I don't miss a thing.:cool
    Thanks for your post though.