Porn. Good or bad?

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  1. Cwissy

    Cwissy New Member

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    I mean, do you think it's a good or bad thing in general?

    Does it warp people, or degrade women?

    My own view is I love it, and I think nowadays women seem as much into it as the men. They also seem to be major power players in the porn industry.

    If so, who are your favourite/Least favourite porn stars.

    Mine are: -
    Kylie Ireland
    Tabitha Stevens
    Nicole Sheridan
    Jewel D'Nyle
    Angel Long
    Miko Lee
    Ava Devine

    I don't like: -
    Gauge
    Jill Kelly
    Cathy Barry
    Tera Patrick

    My wife has a weird thing for Ron Jeremy. What is it about the guy apart from the obvious? ;)
     
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    I love rough porn, my girlfriend likes watching it for laughs. It doesn't really turn her on.

    It does kind of degrade women, but it's a choice, not slavery...so some women may enjoy being degraded, I don't really know.
     
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    I love porn, I just wish my gf liked it too. Any tips for getting her more into it?

    favorite stars:

    Tera Patrick
    Taylor Hayes
    Jenna Hayes
     
  4. shudupndriv33

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    I only very recently have been able to watch porn without being repulsed. But have actually ended up using them as learning tools. After 'being talked into it', I asked my ex to pick a couple that were'nt too raunchy and agreed to watch with him. ;) He also suggested that we watch them only after we had intercourse, so I'd be sure to know he was being turned on by me and not the flick. I think a lot of women feel 'used' when their partners approach them for sex after being turn on by porn and resent not being the source of the original turn on...I know I did. With him beside me, I ended up not being offended at all by them and actually managed to become comfortable with watching. I admit, with the aid of hind-sight, that it did add a few things to our sexlife, I relaxed, became way more willing to try new things and my comfort level went through the roof. What I realize now, (since he was my first partner) is that he was helping me learn and become more comfortable with my own sexuality. And hey, it worked and I thank him for it. Good Luck!
     
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    Great advice. I am definatly going to try it. One question though, what films did he pick for you guys to watch together. I am interested in what films a woman would be willing to watch.
     
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    Very glad to help, only wish I could help with the selection. I do know this though...we have a pretty classy adult store here in town, and he literally asked for the most upscale, less offensive films they had and they helped him. We no longer keep in touch or I'd ask him for you, they became a part of his collection.
     
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    Personaly I think porn is great, my parents, grand parents, aunts, uncles and some of my cousins watch it to. I dont think it warps people in any way as long as they know its not 100% serious stuff. I have seen some really, really really wierd stuff before and been turned away from it so I guesse you learn what your into.
     
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    Hi there
    I think that porn does give maybe a younger male a warped image of women as sex objects, but the average adult male would probably understand the difference between porn and real life and if they don't they'll find out quickly i suppose.
    Some porn can be degrading to women I think if they are not willing and they get it anyway but generally the chicks in the movie seem to be enjoying it alot!
    I think porn is great but I did feel uncomfortable with it a bit at first because the women generally looked amazing and I felt a little self conscious about myself but I got over that the more I realised that it doesn't matter at all. Really liking the movies had something to do with it too :D my partner made me feel comfortable with porn as he was a regular viewer and had some movies which he showed me and I liked them. Being Bi means I like watching naked women and men so its all good! :D I do find lesbian scenes a little boring though. Throw in a guy and its much more interesting hehe favourite porn stars hmmm Rocco Sifredi's movies are a favourite for me, they're maybe a bit hardcore though for some of your girlfriends who aren't sure about porn yet.

    Also about the Ron Jeremy thing Cwissie, apart from the fact he's well endowed, maybe your wife finds it sexy how Ron Jeremy is disgusting yet he gets to do all these beautiful sexy ladies hehe
    Is porn a good thing or not, I enjoy it and millions of others do hmmm, good thing :phat
     
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    Thanks.

    Ron is a legend among men as well. I think it's because he gives us hope. If HE can get all those girls....y'know....

    YOU feel self conscious about watching the beautiful women? Think how we men feel seeing all those men...all packing 8 inches minimum!! C'mon!!

    Unless all men DO pack like that. If so, I'm in BIIIIG (or smaaaalll ;) ) trouble!

    :)
     
  10. fantasien

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    We have Jenna Jameson to thank for the power thing!:D

    As far as i go, I'm not too into it. I know, I'm a guy too. But i like more soft core stuff. I DON"T like anal porn, ewe. It's just to raw, and the girls in it are completely trashy.
    And i don't really watch it much anymore!
     
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    A great porn movie for couples.

    If you want your girl get interested in porn, find Night Trips staring Torre Wells. Almost zero dialog and great classical piano throughout the film. Another great movie is Curse of the Cat Woman. This is the first and only video that my wife I had to finish watching and even after we were done. If you want to watch a funny but cool and really raunchy movie, get The Devil in Miss Jones 3 and 4.

    Now a question for the older porn fans. Does anyone remember a movie from the eighties that had no dialog and great music that was about a rich uptight business woman who goes to a mansion where she wanders from place to place watching people have sex as she becomes aware of her own desires?
     
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    Was that 'Desires within Young Girls' starring the awful Georgina Spelvin? I dunno...... :)
     
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    Dunno who the main girl was, but the movie starts off with here just riding in a limo through the country. It has a pony girl scene with Raven Richards and a great scene with Peter North and Salena Steel. The name doesn,t sound familiar.
     
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    Not Bad but...

    I don't think it's bad but admittedly porn does give guys a complex about their penis size and women a complex about their bodies. And there's no reason why that should be.
     
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    As long as people remember that its not reality as such they shouldn't have a complex about porn if they like watching it. The filmakers look for guys with massive dicks and women with amazing bodies. They make the movies to be fantasy like... at least on the womens side, alot of them have massive amounts of money for things like all over tans, plastic surgery, fantastic lingerie and makeup artists, unlike me lol

    *Jenna Jameson is soooo cute*
     
  16. Heely

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    - great choices, but putting Jill and Tera in your 'don't like' list?! :eek
    I go through phases with porn stars, currently I'm into Brittney Sky - you know what I'm talking about!

    - As for your wife, I'm sure she's great, but perhaps has a thing for short, fat ugly guys?
     
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    I've just looked in the mirror and realised that you are right!!! :cry
     
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    I treat myself to porn every now and then. It's a treat that i don't abuse! just like how i go to the movies once a month.
     
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    I think the subject of porn is a tricky one. It is easy to let it get carried away. And for those that do not have a good sense of who they are sexually can become warped or have a slanted view of what sex is. For me, I enjoy porn, but I am selective about what I watch. I do not care for porn that is rough or dominating. I do not care for porn that the guys are crude or vulgar. I like porn where it seems to be a decent balance, like the more recent Jenna Jameson movies. Movies where the actresses have more of an influence of how it's going to come across on film. My girl enjoys porn, but as she has pointed out and I am more aware of, porn can get kinda boring. There's not alot of difference from film to film. I personally am a fan of anal, like the "ass worship" films, where the focus is on the girl's amazing asses.

    My favorites:
    Nikki Dial
    Jenna Jameson
    Aria Giovanni
    Taylor Little
    Jeanna Fine
    Amber Michaels
    Jewel DeNyle

    The one question that my girl wanted me to ask was, what's the deal with these guys in porn? They are not all that attractive. Does anyone have an answer for her?
     
  20. Heely

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    - Mainly, they can get s stiffy on demand. It's harder (no pun intended) than you'd think! As much as sexy ladies turn a guy on, if someone said you gotta get hard and stay like it for the next 3 hours while "acting" and being filmed I don't think many guys would be able.
     
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