[Ask a Girl] Porn and sexual preferences

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  1. Ossarius

    Ossarius New Member

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    Hi ladies (and guys who like to post on or read ‘ask a girl’). I am very interest in human sexuality, likely due to the fact that in that regard I am abnormal (or if you don’t believe in ‘normal’, I am ‘displaced from what is common’). I have been reading a lot of the threads on this site and I came upon a very fascinating poll on same-sex porn. I noticed that women seemed to enjoy lesbian porn a lot more than men enjoy gay porn (maybe not surprising, women are hot). 26 women enjoyed it and only 4 disliked it.

    Since I currently believe in sexual fluidity and that all (or most) women are either bisexual/curious/hetero-flexible (whatever you want to call it) or lesbians, this doesn’t really surprise me, but, since the women I have been involved with in the past have said I don’t really understand women at all, I thought maybe I would get a more informed opinion. Also, in the poll 16 women liked gay porn and only 6 disliked it, which did come as a surprise.

    Feel free to only answer the questions you are interested in or comfortable with answering and, judging from past threads, if anyone does answer, I am sure that all the replies with be very insightful and honest, which I appreciate.

    Post Scriptum: Guys, even though this is for the ladies, feel free to either give input about your experiences with women and porn or answer some of the questions but with the genders reversed (question one would be Do you like gay porn).

    1. Do you like lesbian porn?
    2. If yes, is this because you are bisexual, bi-curious, hetero-flexible, or attracted to women in some way?
    3. If no, do you enjoy lesbian porn because it focuses on female pleasure and you are able to put yourself in the place of one of the participants and empathically share in her experience?
    4. If yes, do you think that putting yourself in the place of a woman who is being pleasured by another woman could possibly mean you are unknowingly or subconsciously slightly bisexual?
    5. Has watching lesbian porn made you more likely to have a FFM 3some or a lesbian experience?
    6. Does lesbian porn either ‘do nothing for you’ or slightly gross you out, as gay porn does for many men (as far as I know)?
    7. Do you like gay porn?
    8. If yes, (assuming that women watch porn empathetically as some research/comments on forums like this one suggest) why do you enjoy it when there is no female present to empathize with?
    9. If you like gay porn, do you think (as some on this forum have suggested) that this is evidence that you are extremely straight (strickly dicky)?
    10. If you dislike gay porn, is there a reason you dislike it?
    11. Do you only like straight porn and if so, why?
    12. (Hard question, no pun intended) since men and women pattern differently with regard to same-sex porn, what do you think this reveals about the differences between men and women?
    13. Bonus question: Favourite and least favourite type of legal/mainstream porn if any?
    Thanks all.
     
  2. AGFUNK

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    Do you like lesbian porn?
    It's ok. I would say I'm pretty neutral on it.

    If yes, is this because you are bisexual, bi-curious, hetero-flexible, or attracted to women in some way?
    I am pansexual.

    If no, do you enjoy lesbian porn because it focuses on female pleasure and you are able to put yourself in the place of one of the participants and empathically share in her experience?
    I never put myself in the position of anyone in porn. I just watch it because I like seeing people have sex.

    Has watching lesbian porn made you more likely to have a FFM 3some or a lesbian experience?
    No. I've always wanted to have a threesome. Porn has nothing to do with it.

    Does lesbian porn either ‘do nothing for you’ or slightly gross you out, as gay porn does for many men (as far as I know)?
    Depends on how the porn is. If it's faked and I can tell it's faked then it does nothing for me. If they are actually passionate then it turns me on.

    Do you like gay porn?
    Yes.

    If yes, (assuming that women watch porn empathetically as some research/comments on forums like this one suggest) why do you enjoy it when there is no female present to empathize with?
    I don't empathize with anyone in porn. I love the raw animalistic sex that most gay porn has.

    If you like gay porn, do you think (as some on this forum have suggested) that this is evidence that you are extremely straight (strickly dicky)?
    No.

    Do you only like straight porn and if so, why?
    No.
     
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