Please help....orgasm problem

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  1. Lucrezia

    Lucrezia New Member

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    Hi,

    I'm new here and I have a problem that I can't find anything on around the net, and am embarrassed to go to my doctor with.

    I am having orgasms without any sexual touching, or anything sexy at all. I am newly married and have an active sexual life, and orgasm a lot when my husband and I make love.

    The orgasms, which seemed funny at first, aren't funny anymore. I don't know why they happen, but spending hald my life hoping I won't have an orgasm isn't much fun.

    I spoke with a GF who said she had heard of such a thing called spontaneous orgasm, and she thinks that's what I have. Does anyone please know anything? I am getting that I am too embarrassed to go to college and get through a normal day.

    When everyone finishes laughing; that's what my GF did, could you please offer any ideas, or solutions.

    Thanks for any help,
    Lucy
     
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    enjoy it while it lasts?

    but seriously, can you not hide it, is it immediately obvious to those around you or is it something that you can keep to yourself?

    jo
     
  3. Lucrezia

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    In the beginning it was funny, as I said, and even my husband and I were amused, but this is 6 months later. It isn't easy to cover up a red face!!!!

    I am not denying that it feels good "when I am at home", but it's more embarrassing going out. When I am out, there is NO sexual thoughts going on in my head, and I try to keep them out very hard!

    It feels like my muscles are clamping tightly.......I can't describe the feeling before other than just as if I were having sex and about to orgasm.

    I can laugh at what you wrote.......I HAVE to laugh at myself, but I seriously want to know WHY and what is happening to my body. :ugh

    Thanks for your reply,
    Lucy
     
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    First of all, welcome here Lucrezia!! :)

    Well, I'd recommend you to see a Doctor. One question: Are you under medications? That could be the problem.

    I founded this for you:


    "From the bizarre pleasure of a spontaneous orgasm to the libido-crushing agony of episodic impotence, antidepressant drugs have long been known to carry the risk of sexual side effects.

    Most of these unintended effects are negative; some are just plain weird. And at the forefront of strange results, users have had orgasms while exercising, shopping - and yawning.

    This "yawning orgasm" has been reported by patients using Prozac, Zoloft, Wellbutrin and other antidepressant drugs. As many as 5 percent of patients experience the side effect, experts say, though the orgasms may be widely underreported: They have been discovered only "coincidentally during routine side-effect queries," according to one group of researchers, who suspected that patients may be "unwilling to reveal the experience."

    "They could be driving their car, and there it is!" said Dr. Norman Sussman, a clinical professor of psychology at the New York University School of Medicine.

    Not all out-of-the-blue orgasms were yawn-related. One female patient documented in the Journal of Biological Psychiatry "experienced a three-hour, sudden-onset spontaneous orgasm while shopping." She said the experience was "pleasurable," but "found the experience socially awkward" and stopped taking her medication."


    If you are interested on the complete note go here.

    Hope this help you. :D
     
  5. Lucrezia

    Lucrezia New Member

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    Thank you all for the replies. No, I am not taking any medications, legal or illegal. But I did have a hormone check done a while back and the doctor said I have extremely high estrogen levels. Maybe this is a contributing factor, I don't know, but I have decided to pluck up the courage and go to the dr's, or stay at Home! :eyes

    Thank you again! If nothing else, you have all given me the feeling that I am not a freak, which I was feeling like.

    -Lucy ;)
     
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    You're welcome Lucy, and you're not a freak for sure!!!

    :) God bless you!
     
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    No you are not a freak,but Im sure you know this is not altogether normal either.I think you should go to OBGYN instead of a family DR.They know a little more about this kind of thing.Let us know what he says.
     
  8. Lucrezia

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    Thanks all :) Well, I went to the DR's yesterday, and he took some blood for hormone tests. This doctor is also an OB/GYN [I live in a semi-rural city in Australia as my hubby is contacted to work in this country for 3 years].

    The Dr said he thinks I may have excessive testosterone levels, but he is surprised that I don't have any abnormal hair to go with it, but also added that he feels this is balanced out by high estrogen levels which have previously been found to be extremely high. All up he thinks it is hormaonal and will send me to a specialist in a bigger city if it appears he cannot help me. Until then he has advised that I have sex more often with my partner :lol .....who is dead already! and ummmm......masturbate more as he thinks I may be thinking about sex and then supressing it to avoid the orgasms. That IS a bit true. I was SOOOoooo embarrassed but the dr laughed and offered hubby and I his room :brow

    So.......looks like I am going to be busy. My hubby jokes and says I need 2 husbands. :eek

    At least I can laugh about it a bit now. Thank you for all the warm welcomes. I really needed it!

    Lucy
     
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    I'm glad you're OK Lucy... now enjoy your homework!!! :p :p :p
     
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    I'm jealous of your homework assignment! WoW!
     
  11. Lucrezia

    Lucrezia New Member

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    LOL, No one is saying you can't do the same homework as me :lol . None of us are going to get a degree in....ummm....well....... :D enough said.

    Thanks for the laughs! :D

    Lucy
     
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    >>So.......looks like I am going to be busy. My hubby jokes and says I need 2 husbands

    It could be worse. You could be living in Utah and have to share a husband with 3 other women. ;)
     
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