Please advise what to do

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  1. kickballz

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    Hi all,

    I am having relationship with my current girlfriend for just 7 months.
    We been sleeping together on a same bed for quite sometime without sex.
    I love to hug her while sleeping whole night.
    Just found out this morning.
    When I am going to do some laundry, I accidently dicovered that her panty is WET especially the private part.
    Does that means she wants sex?
    Well, I am afraid to make the first move because afraid of being rejected.
    Please advice.
     
  2. Hot Wheels

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    Re: Please advice what to do

    Your profile says your 31 years old kickballz.....and your sounding like a young teenager here.....:eyes
    Why does what you have said make me think your underage?
     
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    Re: Please advice what to do


    I had been in single for 10 years.
    And this girl is different from previous I met before.
    That's why I am trying my best to study her movements.
    So what does that means?
     
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    Re: Please advice what to do

    ok....if that's the case.....there's only one thing you can do...

    Talk to her....and study her answers instead of checking her panties ok...:D
     
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    Re: Please advice what to do

    well, we asian not as open minded as you are.
    In your opinion what do you think that means?
     
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    Re: Please advice what to do

    It means she gets wet at night that is all; women's vaginas constantly have a slow moisture flow.
    She may well be sexually aroused and god knows how anybody actually sleeping with one of the opposite sex for such a long time would not have consummated at least once.
    Dude, just ask her if she wishes to engage sexually and you may discover that she has been wondering what is taking you so long to get around to it.
    I have known many Asian ladies and although in general a little reticent at first once they get into sex they have no parallel.
     
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    Re: Please advice what to do

    I think it's the same as when men wake up with a woody. Just because it's there doesn't necessarily mean you want sex, right?

    Regardless, make a move. You never know.
     
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    Re: Please advice what to do

    mm.... not sure about that...
     
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    Re: Please advice what to do

    Well, she is not a virgin I do know. She told me once. After her first relationship she wished not to have sex with any other guys except her husband. Quite confusing ha...
     
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    sweet home...
    let's make this clear

    just because a girl is wet doesn't mean she wants to fuck you or anyone else. my panties have been wet before and i wasn't horny or on the prowl for dick.

    you'll know when she's ready to have sex, it's not by checking her panties.
     
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    Re: Please advice what to do

    Wet panties means lots of things. Why dont you ask her or just make your move. I suspect you are very very very much younger than what you state.
     
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    Brilliant post, SWL. *applauds*
     
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    You will only definately know by asking :ugh