[Ask a Girl] Playing with my butt?

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  1. Cream4Me

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    Really this is for either guy or girl. I like to play with my butt. Shoving things in there. Is that gay?
     
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    Here's a helpful quote from...someone:

     
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    Haha nice. Gotta take my own advice. :p
     
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    Tends to work, though I prefer "I don't give a fuck" myself, much more all encompassing.
     
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    Are you attracted to men? I think if you like putting things in there and your not attracted to men than no? (Shrug) I started to doing that to my bf, starting with a rim job first, then my fingers, but I don't think if a guy like his ass played with its automatically gay, just bevause you liked your dicked sucked does that make you gay? Or because I like my pussy ate, and occasional dildo sex does that make me gay?
    I say enjoy it, it feels so good, so who cares if its gay
     
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    i think there is a difference between a guy getting fucked by a girl than getting fucked by a guy; you need to be attracted to a guy in order to have one fuck you or you just need some sort of sexual energy. my best guy friend has his girlfriend fuck him in the ass, but he's not gay. if you're questioning your own sexuality, maybe you are bisexual or just curious about men in general; i have fantasies about women, but it doesnt mean im a lesbian. i like cock to much to give that up ; hahaa. but don't let it stress you or anything, because its completely fine and normal :) hahah.
     
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    No.


    And "gay" is a lifestyle and an emotional way of being rather than sexual likes/dislikes. Being attracted to the same or opposite sex in a ROMANTIC sense (not necessarily just sexual) is what makes you straight or gay, or somewhere in between. IMHO
     
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    I truly believe the vast majority of the world is bisexual by nature and it is social stigmas and assigned gender roles that make us uncomfortable with admitting our attraction can go toward both sexes in the right setting. I consider myself a straight married man, but I love ass play, occasionally fantasize about men or will watch gay porn, and am very bi-curious to experiment with men in person. But I still identify as "straight", love women, and love my sex life with my wife.

    So no, I dn't think a little anal play makes you gay. It makes you open-minded to something al guys should be more open to experience. Cause, frankly, when done right....it's awesome. :)


     
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    Yes. This.

    Also, sexual orientation doesn't have to do with what feels good to you, it's a mental thing.

    You're a guy. Are you romantically/sexually attracted to:

    Gals but not guys? You're straight.
    Guys but not gals? You're gay.
    Both? You're bi.

    Or is it an incredibly complicated and personal set of emotional/reactional/logical functions which no one, yourself incuded could begin to comprehend, leading to intensely varied and unpredictable situational attractions? You're Human.

    But even in a Kinsey sense of, "have have gay/straight/both sex, therefore you're gay/straight/bi," masturbation is a solo act... how can that be "gay?"