Sometimes I go to bed, without really expecting my wife to be in the mood. So I don't get out the goodies and lubes. I have the lubes and DVD's locked in a suitcase, so kids can't get into our stuff. Lately, my wife has been more in the mood, and I have not gotten up to get out the stuff for real action, and I have just ended up being lazy and just doing mutual masturbation. It is nice when my wife moans from my fingers around her clit. but I would have prefered more closer to humping action, but I was too lazy to get the stuff out, and then I am having too much fun to interrupt long enough to get my stuff out. So this post is to write myself a note to get all my stuff laid out, before I lie down, in case my wife gives me some go-ahead signals. When I go to bed, I try not to be too presumptuous, and lay out all my stuff. My wife is not going to be in the mood until I have run my tounge around her nipples and body for a while. I supose that I could lay my stuff out discreetly, and just not try to be real pushy about it, just have the lubes beside the dresser, just handy enough to grab without any delay. I have to wear glasses to open the combination locks, so that means I also have to find my glasses. Lately my wife has been sharing my reading glassses, so I never know where I might be able to find some glasses. I probably need to get the lubes unlocked earier. My wife is not really in the mood, it seems, until I am half-way asleep, and feeling really lazy. Then she is ready to go. I need to plan on feeling lazy, and have everything I need within easy grabbing distance, before I lie down, just in case my wife becomes receptive. .