[Ask a Guy] Pissed Off

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  1. Colette

    Colette New Member

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    Was with a younger guy - I mention that as it may or may not have something to do with what happened ~~

    He requested me to be on top and I complied - as I mentioned before here I have to "help" so to speak in order to orgasm (and it still didn't happen but I digress...) and he says something like "you really are a freak aren't you" I don't know what he was talking about and I didn't ask him to clarify.

    It may have been meant in more than one way but it just pissed me off - of course you weren't there and don't know him or me, but should I have been pissed off? Would you say something like that?

    I guess it's mostly a vent so feel free to ignore me altogether :lol:nuts
     
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    tomakehersmile New Member

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    Hmmmm... it could be many things but mostly If you're going after much younger and inherently more immature or inexperienced then You should probably expect it to show in their behavior.. Move on..
     
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    dont know the context but it could also have been meant as a compliment...
     
  4. Texas_Red

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    I'm guessing if it had to do with needing a lot to get off, he was inferring that you really are rather kinky.
     
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    It sounds like dirty sex talk to me, i would have seen it as a sexual compliment, and would have told him Yesssssss sir!

    Did he even know you were not achieving orgasm? I think unless you mentioned it or made it highly obvious, he wouldn't have even had a clue and was probably absorbed with getting off himself. I wouldn't see it as an insult at all, even if that were the case.
     
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    Turn it back on him.........if you like him. Ask him if that turns him on and how 'freaky' he wants you to get.
     
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    it seems like you should have asked him what he meant.

    men sometimes say dumb things, the woman takes it the wrong way and gets mad at him, then man wonders wtf happened, cause he thought he was saying something else.
     
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    Maybe it was just his style of "sex talk".
     
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    He probably meant it as a compliment but chose the wrong time and words.