First of all, I'd like to say hello to eveyone, as I am new to this forum. My sex life is a bit far from great, and one of my main concerns at the moment is the fact that, although I care very much for my boyfriend (of 2 1/2 years now) I've come to realise that I'm just not that physically atracted to him. When we do have sex (never as often as he would like) I usually have to find the mood for it deep in myself and in my mind. He isn't that much of a turn on for me as I would like him to (or as I am to him... although he's actually goodlooking and all.) Do you think a relationship like this could or should last much longer? Is it possible to find a way of enhancing the sexual empathy with your partner?