Phone Sex

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by Ready2Please, Mar 12, 2011.

  1. Ready2Please

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    So I am curious as to how many people have phone sex and how often do you do it if you do? Does your DH/DW or SO go away on business trips. If so do they call home to have phone sex? Do you live a distance from your SO,BF or GF?

    I only have phone sex every so often but only with one person. The person has sent me a picture although I can view it visually via my phone. I choose not to because I rather hear him moaning and talking naughty to me on the phone. It drives me insane when I hear him on the other end. Makes me want to cum more and more. Sometimes I will put the phone down there and let him listen to my fingers playing with myself or when I am using the massage vibrator.

    I've cum atleast 3 or 4 times on the phone. :D

    The guy I do it with is not some random guy we've talked for a couple of months. I consider him more of a friend then just a guy who I have phone sex with. He is a real sweetheart!
     
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    when i was in college and live an hour away from my wifey we did it almost on a daily basis, now its not necessary :D
     
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    Shamefully,I'm not good at all at phone sex.I just feel silly and can't get myself to get into it.The only times I have I had to have quite a bit to drink first :eek:
     
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    I can do it without being drunk.
     
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    Been a few years for me.. Never knew I had it in me before a girl friend brought it out in me.
    I think sometimes it depends on the relationship.. My last gf .. i wouldn't feel comfortable..
     
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    That was how I was when I tried to do it with an ex of mine many years ago. She didn't seem to mind but I found myself feeling really silly and having a hard time finding different things to say.

    I've done it a few times in the recent past and I think I did better. Still found myself being silent a bit more than I wanted to be, but I was essentially told to shush and not worry about it.
     
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    Damn straight!
     
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    Done it a couple of times and found it quite enjoyable but the other half could'nt get into it. I do a bit of txt sex with a female friend which we both find a real turn on.
     
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    Who says necessity is a requirement :phat
     
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    My husband won't do it at all. I do have phone sex with my virtual lover a few times a month and I love it.
     
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    I haven't done it in many years. My ex used to love it but I was never relaxed enough to enjoy it.
     
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    i was in a long distance relationship and had phone sex almost daily, lol. its not the same, almost like listening to a homemade porno heh. really though, it was like extra long foreplay, because when we finally got together we spent a weekend relieving that tension :p
     
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    I'm a pro lol

    No not really but with having long distance relationships you do what you gotta do to be intimate. It used to be a daily thing.. hearing him cum was so amazing and it really got me off. Maybe even more so than sex lol
     
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    I was into phone sex before I got married, and oh believe me I reaaaallly miss it much now :-(

    One more thing that reaallly turns me on is sexting. The idea of someone you desire sending you nude pics of herself just KILLS me over and over and over and over and over again...OMG!
     
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    oh with Piggy on the phone....she really makes me wanna work my vent
     
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    Does sexting count as phone sex? We do that on a daily basis. Sometimes we even include a picture or two...
     
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    sexting is fine for me too.I guess I like teasing and hinting at what I'm doing then flat out saying it.Well,in person I have no problems though :)
     
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    I don't think sexting really counts as "phone sex" as you wouldn't call a phone sex line and expect to get nothing but texts in return.

    Sexting is it's own thing and in my opinion quite fun.

    I also absolutely adore phone sex. I'm a very auditory person. I can get off quicker by just listening to someone getting themselves off rather then watching. Visual's are a very VERY small part for me.

    Phone sex also isn't just for dating or couples who live long distances from each other. I'm married and my husband and I still do it. There are often times where I'll call him up on his lunch break while at work! :) Also, I have a select few friends who I do it with.
     
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    Sexting doesn't count^^
    I use to do it a lot when me and my ex lived apart. Tried it once with my current girlfriend but she doesn't really get in to it.