ive been really embarrassed to talk to anyone in my family or my friends about this but i have a few problems. im a virgin and ive just started going out with this girl who really wants to have sex with me. i used to have a really tight foreskin which prevented me from retracting it over the head but thats fixed now. however because of this the head og my penis is extremely tender and sometimes touching it isnt a nice experience. also because i wasnt able to retract my foreskin, a lot of smegma (that yellow dirt on your penis) has built up but because its so sensitive i cant properly clean it, any advice on how to fix this and on my first time would b greatly appreciated.