Performing with a Non-Curved Penis

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  1. helmut

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    So I have been doing a lot of research lately and have gotten the impression that a lot of women prefer a curved toy/penis, which I would assume is because they feel that it is easier to hit the g-spot and other vaginal hot spots. This seems to be confirmed by my research on basic female anatomy.

    I unfortunately am equipped with a straight penis (within average size range), and have started to become rather insecure about my shape. So, I was wondering, all other things equal (emotional connection, attractiveness, etc.) can a guy in my anatomical situation perform as well as a guy with a curved penis, and hit spots such as the g-spot, a-spot, etc. If so, how could one achieve this? Are there any positions, angles, or techniques that would be more suited to non-curved, straight penises or toys? Are there any advantages to having a straight, non-curved penis?

    Happy Holidays,
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    I am sort of obsessed with being able to have the ultimate intimate moment with my (future) partner, where I can give her a g-spot orgasm through sex and at the same time have the option of kissing her face to face if that's what she likes. Are there any techniques or positions that will allow for me to have such a moment?
     
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    You shouldnt feel bad about your straight penis, theres nothing wrong with it! To hit the g spot try shallow strokes from a face to face position or doggie style & riding either higher(for rear entry) or lower (for face 2 face) depending on the position. You said you have done research on the female anatomy so just remember where the g spot is located & aim for it! Your straight penis is just as capable of hitting the sweet spot as any other penis!
     
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    my man isn't curved and he has NO problem hitting my g-spot ;)
     
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    Agreed, it's how you use it, not it's shape. Mine is straight to, and I have no problem. Try a different position.
     
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    +1

    my penis is also straight, ive only seen curved penis' in porn and hve never really worried about it, and i do the job with my straight shooter.like they said pull back and aim for it, plus i put thought into it and i figured a curved penis would have to be really short to hit the g-spot dead on. but im not a girl so i wouldnt be able to really know.
     
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    shorter would work better too.
    But i'm sure straight works equally as fine just tune your angle and you good to go!
    If your long just pull out a bit so much more friction and pressure from the head hits the g-spot :) instead of it being too deep inside with less sensation
     
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    I find that if i am on my back with my knees over his shoulders, both of us close, that the G gets it every time. Hmmmm, been a long time.....
     
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    I have a non-curved penis, and I was worried about the same thing but everything's good. You don't need the curve, you just move your partner in the right position or move yourself. The curve might make it more interesting SOMETIMES but it's not a neccesity
     
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    Hitting the g-spot with a straight penis is no problem at all, and if you're a bit longer than average, say about 7", you can also graze the AFE, which is quite special as well. Either way, g-spot or AFE, the trick is to get the angle right, to be aware of your partners reaction to what you're doing (most important), and equally important to have the stamina to take her all the way without coming too early. And awareness and stamina is about technique rather than size or shape.
     
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    I never knew until a few years ago that often a curved penis is desirable. After i saw all the so called g-spot dildos I began to feel better about myself. Though my wife has always been intrigued by my shape and the feel of it.

    Having an upward curve makes the missionary position sometimes a little difficult, but cowgirl, woman on top is supreme for her and me.
     
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    curveball,
    Please fully read the original post before replying; your reply left me feeling more insecure than to begin with. It's great that you have a desirably shaped anatomy, but this post was aimed to provide comfort to those that were less fortunate and given straight penises, so please limit replies to encouraging comments for us unfortunate straight guys.
     
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    Dude, fuck haters, love those who play to your good emotions. I curve up, have an above dick size and can't cum till the woman has an orgasm. However, that doesn't mean I'm better or worse then you.

    The tongue is a great sex toy, and it curves in many ways. And, believe it or not, it goes in a ways. So, lift your chin high, grab your cock, and go forth and cause many orgasms. It's in your mind bro. Do it, do it do it.
     
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    Douche (not an insult lol - just replying to your name)
    Thanks for the words of encouragement - I really appreciate the effort you made to help me. However, what I am really looking for are concrete tips, advice, or feedback on how I can please a woman - WITH MY PENIS - as well as a guy with a curved penis. I love using my tongue, but I want to know if/how I can use my straight dick to pleasure a woman as well as a curved man.

    Thanks for all the responses so far - you guys are really great
     
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    Ok, what I'm saying is that whatever woman you are with...be it a fling, wife, gf, or what not....your tongue does wonders.

    A females G-spot is about 2 inches in, on the top side of her vaginal cavity. When you reach inside with a finger, or stick your dick inside her, you probably fill a little bump on top. That's the spot to hit. Put pressure on that with whichever tool you are using (penis, finger) and it's a guaranteed orgasm.

    Having a straight dick doesn't hinder anything. You just have to find a position that hits that spot. So a straight dick would be more likely to make a woman orgasm in the Pleasure spot or Lap Dance positions. Look them up for more info, and maybe buy a Karma Sutra book, whcih has many different and very significant positions for both partners pleasure.
     
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    oh really guaranteed?
     
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    Always worked with you. ;)
     
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    Cock wise it did when I was on top .. maybe I have a weird vag
     
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    My cock curves up. Doggy style doesn't hit it, and me on top was the wrong angles. ;)
     
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    Are guys with curved penises generally more successful with first-impression sex and casual sex? From what I've heard they would hit the g spot better with simple missionary sex (most likely in a first-impression sex situation) whereas unfortunate men like me with straight penises must use a bunch of complicated techniques to achieve optimal performance in this area (which takes time/communication/effort and is only really possible after at least a couple sexual encounters...plus a new partner is probably less likely to engage in a bunch of weird positions right off the bat, especially if she is reserved).

    Is this assessment correct? It has been causing me some anxiety, because this means that (penis size and other factors being equal) guys with curves have a better first impression with PIV sex (because they can hit the ultimate g spot), and are less likely to be considered sexually incompatible during the first stages of a relationship. Additionally, they would be able to establish a much better sexual reputation if they were trying to be a player. On the other hand, a guy with a straight penis can't hit the g-spot right off the bat, and so he will score lower in a female's initial evaluation of him when she is considering making it more than a one-night stand, and can only demonstrate his true sexual potential after at least several less-than-ideal sessions (I know there are MANY other factors to her decision but every bit counts).

    If anyone can give advice to me and other straight dicked men to help us out in this regard, I would appreciate it immensely, as I am very anxious and insecure about this issue...are there any simple, normal ways for guys like me to hit the g spot with PIV sex? and is the thing about guys with curves true?

    Thanks so much,
    Helmut
     
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    I wouldn't worry, honestly. Hubby is perfectly straight, and hits my g-spot all the time. The best position for us is with him on top and my legs as far back towards my shoulders as they can go. Another - my fav - that guarantees g-spot stimulation is with him standing, me lying down on the edge of our bed with my calves up on his shoulders. Works like a charm! :)