Over the years I have talked with many people men and women that are living married lives in sexless marriages. Obviously looking on Craigslist you see the ads posted all over from both sexes some complete spam but many not, Ashley Madison married women all over looking for sex. After reading through the forums on here is surprises me how many have this moral compass in their heads for others to live by. I talked with a friend recently that still loves his wife of 34 years but we started talking about sex and I mentioned normally twice and he said I know I only get sex twice a year myself and my jaw hit the table and I told him no I meant twice a week. He said you get laid twice a week and I acknowledge and he immediately went to I am considering an affair or FWB. Now let me ask many people would think married people or people in committed relationships should not be on this site or any other sites if their significant other isn't aware that they do it. If people are in a relationship and their partner for whatever reason has decided to check out sexually or they have no sense of adventure sexually but still seem to be interested in hanging on to the relationship isn't it at least 50% their responsibility to go to their spouse and say I know I don't fulfill your needs sexually so let's discuss options to deal with this? I know it doesn't happen and if it does the percentage is tiny in comparison. I can't tell you how many people I have talked to that are in this situation and for many people on here to go off morally on someone for their infidelity is wrong in my eyes. Fine you got married and uttered the words in church or whatever the problem is no pre marital counseling talks about you each have responsibility in keeping each other sexually satisfied. If you don't you can expect your partner man or woman will look elsewhere for satisfaction. Ok let me have it because I know it's coming from the morally perfect.