Penis Size

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  1. TheKing

    TheKing New Member

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    Hi, My penis is 5.5 - 6.5 Inches Erect but it's 6 Inches around

    I've been told mine is small But they say if you're penis is that size it's ok.

    another problem is when I am not Erect it's VERY small

    any tips

    maybe my confidence is just low.
     
  2. Thorn

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    You are average brother, nothing to worry about. The 6 inches around is an excellent girth. Most girls care more about girth that length, but even your length is nothing to get upset about. As far as being small when its not erect, at least it rises to the occation when called upon. Mine is the same way when soft.
     
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    I don't mind a smaller guy at all. In fact sometimes I prefer it. Sometimes fucking a guy with a big cock can leave my pussy sore and make sex less pleasurable while it heals. I had this problem this past weekend and it's still a little tender.

    That's my experience at least. Maybe some girls are all about size, but I think most would agree.
     
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    King, I am about same length as you, just not as much girth. Also, almost embarrassingly small when soft. Some guys are 6 soft and still about 6 when erect. Hell, soft, I look like a young kid. I guess the small size will benefit me shoudl I ever get to try anal. I have never had any complaints about size from women.
     
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    Not the size of the boat ... it's the motion of the ocean.
     
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    True, I wouldnt worry about the lenght.
    just do a good job with what you have.
    If yoy worry about the lenght it can get you uptight
    and that can kill an erection. And no girl with a brain
    will ever critize your lenght. (Yours is normal anyway)
     
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    My boyfriend's the same size as you (length and girth-wise) and it seems to almost disappear when he's soft, but it definitely rises to the occasion every time. I've got no complaints. :)
     
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    Hiya

    Dont worry m8, im pretty sure all us men with less than 8" will become extinct as most girls prefer more than 8" an thick penises, so wen they start off with an 6" length an 6" girth its good, but then they hav a 8" penis with say 8" girth, then there gonna open up more, so if they decide 2 shag anything less than the big guy then there not gonna feel it much, so its gets pointless 2 the smaller guy, coz hes wastin his time, the problem with most woman is there 2 selfish all they care about is if they feel it, i mean wat if the woman feels it but not the man, you get wat i mean.

    i dunno if the above baffles u but, if i were u an some 1 took the pee outta ur nob, jus say ur not the effort of a good shag an walk out or leave how ever u wish! lol But above 5" is good, i mean im only 6.5" lenght and 6" thick (circumference) so dont worry!

    dont 4get u hav ur left and right hand! lol
     
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    I really don't get why guys are so obsessed with this. I've slept with guys ranging from as big as my index finger (I've got TINY hands) to the size of my forearm, and had good and bad sex at every point of that spectrum. I prefer someone who is not too long, 5 to 6 inches is best. Anything really long is just sort of scary because it tends to hurt me. I was with one guy a while ago who was probably about 9 inches long, and he always commented on the noises I made when we had sex. I'm usually pretty quiet, save for the occasional breathing and grunting. It wasn't pleasure with this guy, I was panting and groaning because he was poking my cervix and it hurt! So, for me at least, there is such a thing as too big. 99% of the guys I know who have been concerned about size had nothing to worry about. Knowing what to do with a woman is much more of a big deal, so to speak.
     
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    Women don't worry that they're pretty enough for their man, do they? They worry that they're not as pretty as Sexy Suzie down the block. Fashion, makeup, dieting - it's all a competition between women. Nothing to do with men. Guys don't worry that they're big enough for you. They worry that they can't measure up to the other guys.
     
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    You've made an excellent point, but just to clarify, are you saying that women's looks, size, etc, really aren't all that important to you or other men?
     
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    You're not much smaller than me, and I can certainly get the job done. Remember: It's not the dangle, it's the angle.
     
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    I think he's saying that the competition aspect between women far outweighs what we think of them. In other words, it's not that we don't care, we just realize that girls like to show each other up.
     
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    It isn't that men don't care, it's that we aren't competing with you. We're the customers, other women are the competition. Your nice shoes, your expensive purse - we could really care less. Honestly, we don't usually even notice. We care that you're healthy, responsive, and personable. Interested in us is a nice plus. So is well-turned out, but there's a reason that there's not much clothing in pornography and ten pages of descriptive prose about the Countess' ball gown in a regency romance. We're interested in different things.

    Ever notice how guys treat tough men with deference and that women tend to think aggression is creepy? Tough guys are competing with other guys for the chance at the women. We tend to tone down the machismo with women, because it's not helpful. Same way smart women tone down how much they care about nice things and act unpretentious around desirable men. Caring about nice things screams "high maintenance" to a man, so it's counterproductive around men, but it screams "I'm ambitious/cultured/rich! I'm a threat to you" to other women, so they back off of the available guys.

    You dress differently for your boyfriend, don't you? Don't you ever worry that the girls will think you're a little slutty when you dress the way he wants you to? He appreciates it, and it makes his friends envious. Don't worry, guys feel the same way when we're carrying your shopping bags. It says "whipped" to a man, but it says "gentlemanly and probably a good provider" to your girlfriends. A smart woman learns how to tie a maraschino cherry stem in a knot with her mouth and demonstrates on the third date. In the same way, I don't dress sexy to impress my date, I wash the dishes after a dinner that I cooked. If I'm really interested in her, I take her to buy the groceries with me.

    Think of the way you present yourself to the world as a bake-off. Someone is going to eat all that apple pie. Everyone likes pie, after all, and at a bake-off, there's a lot of pie to go around. What matters to the nice ladies baking the pie is who wins the blue ribbon. It's more complicated than that, but not much.
     
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    I am 7" long x 6" girth, and I know that is bigger than average (average I think is 6" x 5") - so I am just a whisker bigger than you. Girth rather than length is the key in any case, a few girls I've had sex with have commented on the width, one girl called me her torpedo (with a big smile). A few said that anything much longer than 7" can be painful. It is amazing how much women talk about size when they like 'your' size.

    Don't worry about flaccid size, its erect that counts.
     
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    My penis is 5 inches long(below average) and 5.5 inches in cicumference(above average). Must be OK since my wife cums at least once every time we have intercourse.
     
  17. Thorn

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    oldkinky, youre length is right in the average (not below) from what I've read. Most surveys I've seen say average is in the range of 5 in. to 7 in. in lenth. Ave. girth is around 5 in.
     
  18. Dreama

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    Just be happy, man. My fiance is slightly bigger than average, and we have a great time. He's perfect, and when he is not erect, he's really small. However, it's just blood flow, so looks can really be decieving. Who cares how it is soft? Be thankful for what you have!
     
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