Penis Fetish?

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  1. ShyGuy2

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    So I just discovered that I have a thing for male genitals which is enlightening since it explains a lot but sort of discomforting. I heard it might have something to do with penises being triggers for arousal but considering my particular... desires... It's a bit more than that. I guess I'm just confused because I've never heard of being attracted to one's genitals without being attracted to the person attracted to them but I'm only attracted to the penis and nothing else (unless a woman is on the other hand). If I see a guy attached, I'm turned off. It's a weird situation.

    So I'm wondering if anyone has any insight into this. It would help clear my thoughts.
     
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    Different one indeed.
    Can't offer other input here except maybe you might feel a desire to explore into it and know where you stand.
     
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    I don't think it's odd at all. Do most guys only watch lesbian porn? Probably not... There is something sexually attractive about it. It's hard to figure out tho.. For instance, i get aroused looking at my own penis...and I can watch a video of a guy masturbating , and sometimes even find it erotic.. However, I can't watch two men.. Gay porn is a complete turn off.. .. So.. I dunno.. I guess I've answered nothing here.. Sorry.
     
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    Lol
     
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    I'm not sure either I'm not you. But I do know that there are thousands upon thousands of different fetishes out there with probably several thousand if not a million people for each one.

    So maybe you have a "penis/phallic" fetish so to speak? If you search around long enough I'd bet you are not alone in this.

    And there is probably some information out there somewhere,
     
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    It's not weird to me. In fact I'm willing to bet you grew up watching Disney cartoons... (So many "hidden" phalluses.)
     
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    Oh geez... that might explain it lol.

    Well, seemingly, it's common and a lot of straight guys feel this way so I am definitely not alone.
     
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    Well my spin on it is this;
    I am Penis worshiper and orientated as long as it is mine ;)
     
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    I read Savage Love by Dan Savage every week. Dan is a sex/relationship advice columnist.
    In one weekly entry a guy wrote in and confessed his fetish for transsexuals. As in the m2f type. Loved watching "shemale" porn. Obsessed with it. Anyway his big question was "does this make me gay?"
    Dans answer- no. It doesn't. Men with this fetish are almost always straight with nothing more than a cock fetish. They don't get turned on by guys, they don't get turned on by guys having sex with other guys. They get turned on by girls. And they get turned on by dicks. Also, most m2f transsexuals are more interested in straight men not gay men, dan went on to say.
    So what I'm getting at is you have a cock fetish. And that's perfectly fine. It's normal. And you're fine to indulge in your fetish. Enjoi yourself. :cool:
     
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    absolutely agreed
     
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    Yep , not turned on by men at all...most of the time I don't understand why anyone is lol. But a nice looking cock can be a turn on.