[Ask a Guy] Penis enlarger/enhancers

Discussion in 'Ask a Guy/Girl' started by HillyMiku, Oct 24, 2008.

  1. HillyMiku

    HillyMiku New Member

    Joined:
    Oct 20, 2008
    Messages:
    29
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Female
    Ok, I know this seems like a silly question but I want to know if any guy son here have tried penis enhancers/enlargers.

    Do they work?? I'm not asking for me (I'm a woman) but a patient asked me and I pride myself on doing research but I thought real-world research would be better.

    Any takers??
     
  2. cbrmale

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Sep 26, 2006
    Messages:
    3,493
    Likes Received:
    291
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Canberra
    I haven't used any form of enlargement because, to be honest, I don't need to. As a well-endowed man, I will tell you and your patient that the thing that turns women on, size-wise, is girth. With larger men, women seem to be more open discussing size preferences face-to-face. Too much length is a turn-off to many, but girth can excite quite a few women in a variety of ways: visually, handling a thick penis, and through the sensation of being stretched.

    As well as being thick, I am longer than average, and being longer has benefits and drawbacks. Shallow intercourse positions become, by nature, deeper. In any position, each stroke of thrusting is longer and more drawn-out, and this can generate different sensations. But for some women, no matter how aroused, too much length can cause a man to bottom out inside, and this can be very painful. Painful sex is unpleasant. For most women, it takes a lot of arousal before they are ready to handle a bigger-built man. This means that intercourse has to worked towards, and quickies are out of the question. And even after arousal, a considerate bigger lover will go very slow and shallow to start, and gradually deeper as he senses his partner is ready to take him all.

    Most enhancement techniques work on length, as girth is fixed. Some length enhancement techniques look quite being dangerous and could result in penile damage.
     
  3. HillyMiku

    HillyMiku New Member

    Joined:
    Oct 20, 2008
    Messages:
    29
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Female
    While I would love to tell my patient that girth turns women on - I really need some "real-world" experience/stories. Due to state-laws, I can't go into the discussion that took place between my patient and me, I have about a week to contrive some sort of answer.

    I will tell my patient that girth is fixed and I've already told my patient about the downsides to enhancements. Thank you!
     
  4. cbrmale

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Sep 26, 2006
    Messages:
    3,493
    Likes Received:
    291
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Canberra
    I'll never forget this comment with a first-time date: "oh my God it's a torpedo, I can't wait to get that inside me!". The same date was one of the first to confess (out of embarassement I think), she didn't like long cocks, but she really did like them thick. Every time thereafter she referred to my 'torpedo'.

    My former mistress didn't say a word when we first got naked together, but the look on her face gave something away. Later she talked about not liking long cocks, but liking mine. We had a lovely relationship for a couple of years that was almost exclusively sexual.

    In my life I've had several partners tell me they liked my size. No excuses about it's big enough or it's how you use it; straight up they told me they were excited in anticipation, or they enjoyed it once we were finished.

    My size is 7.5" long and 6.5" girth.
     
  5. elonlyBuster

    elonlyBuster New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 28, 2008
    Messages:
    56
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Ga/FL
    I personally have not used them, but I've heard the lotions do wonders BUT effect your partner by usually making it less comfortable, or pushing their orgasm back. In terms of pills, just mixed results, but the most I've heard from a person I actually know is less than a inch difference.
     
  6. igor

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jan 13, 2006
    Messages:
    4,110
    Likes Received:
    163
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Chicago area
    I think all enlargement schemes are nothing but snake oil. If there were a magic potion that did any good, you'd see it advertised on TV and in every drug store in the nation.
     
  7. da old dude

    da old dude Member

    Joined:
    Sep 9, 2008
    Messages:
    82
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Left Coast
    Hilly,

    Its your lucky day. I just happen to manufacture penis enlargers and mine carry a guarantee length/girth enhancement of at least 50%.

    Send me the payment of only $100.00, and you'll be sure to get yours.
     
  8. downloadking

    downloadking Member

    Joined:
    Jul 31, 2006
    Messages:
    241
    Likes Received:
    2
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Ohio
    I would never buy such garbage!
     
  9. Hyperion

    Hyperion New Member

    Joined:
    Oct 24, 2008
    Messages:
    2
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    High Wycombe
    I'm quite big, and let me tell you when you're about to come, being told that 'you're hurting me you bastard' is a real passion killer. Be thankful you can really let rip on her dude, a big one isn't all it's cracked up to be, lol
     
  10. HillyMiku

    HillyMiku New Member

    Joined:
    Oct 20, 2008
    Messages:
    29
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Female
    Yeah... I'll get right on that. It's not for me (I'm a WOMAN), it's research for a patient and I found a good site for information. Now I'm looking for stories. Email me if you're interested in the site information.
     
  11. elonlyBuster

    elonlyBuster New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 28, 2008
    Messages:
    56
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Ga/FL
    One thing I have figured out is that things like viagra will allow for a dick to stay harder longer. I've also heard of a lotion that will swell a penis, but honestly does that sound like a good thing to you?
     
  12. BassDude

    BassDude New Member

    Joined:
    May 18, 2007
    Messages:
    2,647
    Likes Received:
    18
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    North Carolina
    Hilly...I've never tried one (I'm happy with my slightly above average size), but I really don't think they actually work. I think the only penis enlargement option that truly works is surgery, and it's really not worth it. The most important sex organ we have is our mind...that's where sex starts. IMHO, your patient should learn how to use what he's got (penis, mouth/tongue, fingers/hands, and most importantly, mind) on a lady rather than worrying about the size of his schlong.

    There are women who only like a huge schlong, but I think most women are much more concerned about how you use your tooling than what size it is (within reason, of course). Analogy: I'm a bassist, but buying a $3000 bass guitar doesn't make me play any better (it certainly doesn't hurt, but it's not the key ingredient). Building my own skills, knowing what to do and how to do it, is what makes me play better.

    BD
     
  13. cbrmale

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Sep 26, 2006
    Messages:
    3,493
    Likes Received:
    291
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Canberra
    Yes there are women who only like a large penis, and won't settle for less, and they are in the extreme minority. But don't underestimate the impact that real size can have. Women don't pick men for their size, and they will downplay size most of the time. But everything else being equal, larger is better than average, and average is better than smaller.

    So when a woman says to your face that you're perfect just as you are, is she saying it because that is how she feels, or is she saying it because she knows that's what you want to hear? If she had a choice between you, or you but packaged much bigger, which version would she choose?

    From the male side, being big is a turn-on. We all feel very masculine when we're hard and ready for sex, the harder we are the hotter we feel. Any idea what it's like to look at yourself and see something massive and hard and ready for sex? It is a big turn-on, no question at all.

    In many ways penis size is nonsensical because we can't change it. But at the same time penis size has a few different aspects to it.

    And these urges and desires for size are a lot more primitive than a bass guitar.
     
  14. BassDude

    BassDude New Member

    Joined:
    May 18, 2007
    Messages:
    2,647
    Likes Received:
    18
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    North Carolina
    Yes, Mark we all friggin' worship you because you have a huge cock. You've told everyone that so many times that we all know it. We're all so happy for you that you are superior to about 99% of men on the planet. I'm slightly above average, but I'm quite happy with that...it's enough to "bottom out" every partner I've ever had. (And that's not her telling me I'm bottoming her out...that's me feeling myself bang against her cervix.) Now that's only 8 partners for me, not the hundreds you've had. However, I'll bet I've fucked just as many times as you have, if not more.

    Is a huge cock arousing to women? On a primal level, yes...but it stops there for most women. (A totally slim and muscular girl looks better naked...but a girl with a little meat on her bones actually looks better with her clothes on, and she feels better, so really visual appeal isn't everything.) I'm quite happy with myself the way I am, and really wouldn't change a thing (inside or outside). Since I'm not overly huge, I can actually thoroughly enjoy sex with a woman more than someone who is overly huge. I can slam it all into her without hurting her. Can you?

    BD
     
  15. cbrmale

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Sep 26, 2006
    Messages:
    3,493
    Likes Received:
    291
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Canberra
    Size can be arousing in some form or another, although how arousing I don't know. I always thought it was visual and tactile, nice to look at and nice to hold, so the primal comment makes sense. To some women size doesn't seem to matter at all, and to some women it's downright scary.

    I'm not sure where it stops for women who show an interest in size. The best comments that I heard were from a few women who I got on well with who had a similar perspective on size. That was a good size was good, everything else being equal.

    Yes I can, I have developed the technique of going slow and shallow to start with, and working up to things as I sense my partner gets more aroused. Vaginas enlarge with arousal, so almost any woman can take any sized penis.

    Only once did I have a potential long-term partner where sex was impossible. No matter what I did or how slow I went I hurt her. It was not pleasant, and she was a really nice girl with a very attractive personality.
     
    #15 cbrmale, Oct 28, 2008
    Last edited: Oct 28, 2008
  16. albere

    albere New Member

    Joined:
    Nov 4, 2008
    Messages:
    21
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    North of England
    If somebody does'nt accept you for who you are then thats their loss! i would feel ridiculous even contemplating it. Some guys I guess are a bit insecure so let them pump away. I had a penis injury once and it swelled to twice its normal size! However I was glad when it returned to normal even though it looked good in the mirror.