[Ask a Girl] Paying for sex

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  1. Alwayslearningsex

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    On the topic of women having it for free, I can see where it seems easier generally (Am I off and incorrect?)
    Some men find it hard to find someone as a partner or a relationship, even if their heart and intentions are at the right place.
     
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    I could see where some would find that assertion a bit problematic, so I'd say the gendered patronage of prostitution is a reflection of whom is more likely to be involuntarily celibate.
     
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    @MariaMaria Most of my appointments are either repeat bookings, recommendations, or from people who see me performing at adult parties. The best places I have found to advertise regularly are in mini publications distributed to beauty salons, hairdressers, nail bars, spas etc. I also have agreements with some people running organisations like those mentioned to advertise directly displaying leaflets in their premises. Most successful has been advertising in an internal magazine at a private hospital specialising in cosmetic surgery, I get to see a lot of enhanced breasts! I do very little internet advertising as it isn't direct enough and doesn't target people who may be interested.
     
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    That's so interesting! I think I've been going to the wrong hair salon... :D
     
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    I would never pay for it. And I would also never judge anyone who did. But I find it easy enough to find someone to sleep with for free if I'm in that kind of mood. :)
     
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    I wouldn't but I like to budget everything.

    Paying for a male to have sex with me $100 (just saying I have no idea)

    Using my dildos and fingers priceless :p;)
     
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    I'll use dildos, fingers, tongues and more for you, for free! Well... may be some reciprocal appreciated, but would lead to more fun :p
     
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    I've never paid for sex, but have considered saving up some money and taking a trip to one of the legal brothels in Nevada.
     
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    I haven't had this experience yet. One day, who knows?

    I'm not getting any younger. I think spending money in sex is a fantastic way of getting rid of it before dying. I've had this thought: on my death bed, surrounded by fine, muscular, motivated escorts who'd be massaging me and giving me oral and other sexual goodies. A perfect way to die. I'd have females, too, so everybody is happy and they can fuck each other.

    Yes! A farewell orgy.
     
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    Don't we always pay for it in one way or another? Just sayin.
     
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    I paid even if not my partner. Motel rooms.
     
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    I wanna be invited! (But not for a long time, of course! :D )
     
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    A guy and I swapped our wives one night and they wanted to play escort-client with the partners. The ladies wanted to be treated like elite escorts so we paid them after fucking all night ;) The set up and idea was so hot the ladies gave complimentary fuck too ;)
     
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    What exactly are you saying, E?

    How are you always paying for sex? And why do you think we all are, too?
     
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    It's just an old joke. At some point, we all have to put up with somebody's bullshit so we can have sex. Lol. Therefore, we all pay some price for sex. Just a joke. No offense intended.:D
     
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    Or the other one... "as good looking as they are, somebody, somewhere, is tired of putting up with their shit"
     
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    I'm for hire :D

    First dozen or so visits are FREE :rolleyes:
     
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    I paid for sex a couple of times after my divorce. Really the only time I was not in a LTR. I was not in a hurry to get back into a relationship but I was missing the sex. Although I enjoyed myself during the encounters I did not like how I felt afterwards. This all happened at the same time AIDS and HIV was coming in to light. We used protection, but as a minor germaphobe it sort of took the fun out of it.