[Ask a Girl] Paying for sex

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  1. cook74

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    Well the first one will be free just to see if you like the product and then the next thousand will be free because I will like you so much mon cheri...;)
     
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    Aaaw...a lifetime of cook74's lovemaking? I'm pretty sure that'd be called heaven! :)
     
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    Not to mention the best breakfasts or brunches (after a sleep in) that you could possibly imagine when we woke the next day.:cool:
     
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    Can you also throw in an afternoon stroll by the river to watch the sunset...ok, ok, enough! :D
     
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    Yes, but that will cost as that is overtime...:p
     
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    Aaah, see?! They get you with the free stuff and then, bam! :p
     
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    interesting topic Maria, I've never gone that route but I think its a really good topic for here :)
     
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    i have bought sex overseas a few times. one time bought a lady for a week in Bankok. most refreshinf short term money spent were the steam baths in saigon followed by a blowjob that was unforgettable. who wouldnt want one a day for $11.00, but i digress.
     
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    Happy to undercut anybody's rates and for @MariaMaria; gratis!
     
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    Just had another look at this thread and drunkenly read it as praying for sex which I do religiously daily!
     
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    Very interesting topic @MariaMaria, especially as I make a living from being a male escort. So far the responses sum up the situation fairly well, men admit to hiring escorts, men admit to wanting to be an escort themselves, women admit to the thought of having an escort, women don't admit to having hired an escort.

    @Long stroke said it best, this is how it started for most of my clients.
     
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    Ok so you have to elaborate on a few things, being as you are the "unicorn" in the flesh, lol.
    First off socio-economically how would you describe your clientele? How about their relative physical attractiveness? Do you get the sense they are paying for a better experience then they can garner themeselves, or that they have to pay in order to get the experience at all? And lastly, just to possibly dash any pipe dreams some guy might have about joining the biz, how selective can you afford be about who your services are rendered to, or can you not afford to be?
     
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    Not wishing to buy into strife @Sagittarius84 in this day and age of equality there are indeed a cohort of especially professional females who frankly don't have the time or inclination for ongoing relationships especially when they most often come with strings attached.
    Some of these ladies will prefer to pay a fair price for services rendered on their own terms that rather than the more traditional and often power sapping route.
    More power to them I say at least there are the equaliser option in this modern era!
     
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    I'm really curious if @MasseurNaturel can confirm this, because if that's the case, I think it's furthering inequality, or at the very least reinforcing paradigms and cultural imperatives that contribute to inequality
     
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    So, your "official" job name is masseur. Now, do women who hire know that you offer the extra service or is that something you do if the opportunity comes up?
     
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    Happy to respond to the various questions and comments:

    @Sagittarius84
    Of all the things I have been called in my life I've never been called a Unicorn, I'll add mythical creatures to the list then!

    Socio-economically how would you describe your clientele?
    Without getting too deep and meaningful about this I would describe most clients as being in the medium to upper class social range, and economically well off.

    How about their relative physical attractiveness?
    What one person finds attractive another may not. There is no pressure for any client to consider themselves attractive. The only common theme is they are confident about their body and how they look to themselves.

    Do you get the sense they are paying for a better experience then they can garner themselves, or that they have to pay in order to get the experience at all?
    This is where @lbushwalker makes a very relevant comment. They are typically not paying because they can't get any experience at all, but either to get the regular type of experience they want with no strings attached, or to get a different type of experience to the ones they are used to, usually requesting a more fetish or role-play type of experience.

    How selective can you afford be about who your services are rendered to, or can you not afford to be?
    When you say "afford" I guess that is referring to my finances. In general I am not selective as I am not prejudice, I do not judge people on looks but I will refuse clients based on manners, hygiene etc. To answer directly, I can afford to be selective if I wanted to.

    @lbushwalker
    I won't quote you because I completely agree with everything you said and have many clients who fit the profile you have described, mostly in the 30s to 50s age range.

    @Sagittarius84
    So one of you talks about equality, one talk about inequality. Everyone is entitled to an opinion. My opinion is not to judge people and steer clear of discussions on sexual equality.

    @MariaMaria
    I wouldn't really say I have an official job name, my email signature mentions both masseur and escort. All women who hire me as a masseur know I offer additional services as some may be offended to only find out during their appointment and it is never my intention to offend anyone and I am well aware some people would be offended. However, there is absolutely no pressure or expectation on any client to receive anything other than a massage. I do offer various different types of massage that are sexual but do not involve sex, e.g. Tantric massage, and this is what a fair number of clients look for. That said, many clients did first hire me because they knew I offer additional services and then requested those services at the appropriate time during their appointment.
    Out of respect I never take the opportunity to offer additional services, it is up to clients to request them. Needless to say all women who hire me as an escort do so knowing very well what that involves, with many going into elaborate detail as to what they want from their appointment before it even happens.

    Just a quick (almost) amusing aside, whenever I type Tantric massage on here the spell checker always wants to change it to Antarctic massage. Now that would be a very cold place to get undressed for a massage :)

    Hope you find that helpful.
     
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    On this very topic there is a huge divide between "norms" as experienced in more liberal and sexually "open" countries to those still relatively strict moral expectations in USA even despite a sometimes large variation between states but overall Americans as a whole are still quite arkwadly conservative.
    Therefore dare I say it ?
    Travel (not tourism) broadens the mind!
     
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    First off she was as flexible as a rubber band. I laid on my back, she stood over me with both her feet at my ears and just bent straight over forward and buried my cock in her mouth, with both arms behind her back.
    OMG. I'm getting hard just thinking about her.
    She was also the first woman who played with my anus.
    I should have married her
     
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    I know the feeling well dude, a woman who has done something special to you is always going to be someone very, very special!
     
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    Awesome! Where do you advertise your services? (I'm not asking specifically, just wondering if you do it on regular places)
     
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