[Ask a Girl] Paying for sex

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  1. MariaMaria

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    After reading a couple of articles about girls hiring male escorts, I'm wondering how many ladies here would be open to the idea. Both articles emphasize that sex isn't always the objective of the encounter, but that it can happen. I'll admit to having considered the idea, usually during a horny moment; but as soon as the horniness clears, I think it'd be horrible to hire another human being to please me. What are your thoughts?

    Guys' experiences and opinions are also welcomed ;)

    The articles:
    http://www.thedailybeast.com/career...male-escorts-for-no-strings-fun-and-maybe-sex
    http://elitedaily.com/dating/male-escort-dinner-party/1224073/

    PS: could the name of that escort service be any more ridiculous? :D
     
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    Interesting topic Maria! :) I'll be honest as a guy and say that I have as a virgin thought of hiring a prostitute to take my virginity. But then I never followed through it because I wanted to lose it to someone I at least knew whether it's a friend or a girlfriend. Even a friend of a friend. But not a prostitute so I decided to not do it. I do understand where you're coming from though as a woman with urges for the need to hire a man to give you pleasure though. There is that moment right after when we'll all have that 'ugh' feeling. Speaking of funny name, I have always wondered what Ford was thinking when they named a fuel efficient compact car... the Escort. lol! :) As a car guy myself, I wonder if Ford was insinuating that prostitutes struggling with money could afford to buy the Escort car. haha But anyway, good post again Maria.
     
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  3. scar69

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    COD for me. cash over dick
     
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    I wouldn't. The thought has crossed my mind in the past but I wouldn't pay for something that's always come so easily to me.
     
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    Truer words were never spoken :D
     
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    When I was younger I slept with so many escorts that I actually wanted to be one, but it is harder work than some may think. I enjoyed my time with the women so much I even remember some of their fake names and many of the trysts, but I will always remember the hot trans escort I hired years ago (First anal sex!! as she had such a wonderful small dick) and she really got me thinking about men more.

    I think that many professionals are well worth it but it is like dinning out, sometimes you will hate the meal and the service, sometimes you will feel satisfied and think it was worth the money, but one day you might come across that eatery that rocks your world!
     
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    Prostitution is an odd duck to me, in that I definitely understand why someone would be reluctant to pay someone to sexually please them. But I think we men enjoy a bit of privilege in how it's percieved because we either commonly "pay for sex" in a figurative manner anyways, or our sexual prowess is so enticing, it's somewhat of a compliment that women will pay for the experience.
    But until there is a huge paradigm change in how your average(or below average) man is lusted after on a semi universal basis, i think women who indulge in prostitutes will always be the outliers, the exceptions to the rule. I think it's a construct reflected in dildonics as well, as women typically demand abstract effigys of penises better suited to vaginal and clitoral stimulation, while men push their efforts towards increasingly realistic sex dolls/robots.
     
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    Well, if you ever decide to go for that career change... ;)
     
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    In my early twenties I went to a prostitute. It was embarrassing. I had been partying all weekend and by the Sunday I couldn't get it up so paid her and didn't even have sex!

    Horniness ruled my head that day and I literally paid for it :oops:
     
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    I have paid for sex about 4 times back in the 80s. Three times with the same lady and once literally off the street ( drunken night in NYC) The girl I saw 3xs was actually really cool and a very hot Vietnamese woman. I didn't do it cause I had trouble getting laid. It kinda happened one night when we went into the city and I went back two more times and called to make sure she was working. "Lee" was her name and she did things to me that have never been repeated.
    I think prostitution should be legal and regulatated.
     
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    What did you do instead? Did you guys talk for a while or did you just pay her and she left?
     
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    Such as... :D
     
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    I went to where she was. I paid her then she began sucking me off. I wasn't getting the feeling and it was getting awkward so I just called it and said it wasn't happening. She said "No worries!" and I left. I would insert a crying with laughter face in here if I could because I'm cringing remembering it!
     
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    Aaaw, thanks for sharing even if it makes you cringe! :)
     
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    No problem. I'm a sucker for punishment. I have been thinking about trying an escort again recently. I have a few fantasies that I'd like to try out so I guess I never learn!
     
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    Such as... :D
     
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    Well, I would love to be restrained and used by a woman with a strap on.

    And I love using toys on myself so I'd like to have someone watch me. I have really vocal/loud/intense orgasms when I penetrate my g spot but that's always been done alone so I'd someone else to see it.
     
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    One way to look at it... you're not paying them for sex, you're paying them to leave. :D
     
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    What about during a massage? Like if during the massage, he brushes over your lips or clit and you get so horny that you want him? Would you then pay extra to have him get you off or fuck you?
     
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    Mmmmaybe...
     
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