[Ask a Girl] Past Interracial Lovers

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  1. pawg69lover

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    Ladies...For the white ladies if you're currently dating a white man but have had black lovers in the past and told your man have you encountered problems after doing so. Just curious if your bf/husband had insecurity issues after finding out you had a black male lover in your past due to the stereotype of the big black cock lol
     
  2. Clintriprock

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    My ex girlfriend was with a black guy for a year and I was quite a bit bigger so it's not an accurate stereotype
     
  3. sabian

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    i wouldnt have a problem with it... she often says she would like to see for her self.. but just never had the chance.. I to would love to have interracial sex... I think it would be so hot!!! any takers.... hahaha. The only thing is that the wife may just want to watch.. hahah
     
  4. lbushwalker

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    What the hell has race got to do with it?
    At least in Australia it is pretty much irrelevant.
    Here man is a male and a woman is a female and their happy bits fit like jigsaw, so?
    Of course there are other combos but again what of race so long as they are Homo Sapiens although some might be more correctly tagged as Homo Erectus :lol
     
  5. AtkCCC

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    Male here but....I'm white and wifey is Hispanic so race is not a worry with us. I/we have always judged the person for the person they are. That being said it would not upset me in the least. Who knows, she may have sometime in her past before me, never asked and not gonna!
     
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    Personally, I think the whole concept is pretty shallow. If you have ANY problem with who your SO or SO to be may have been with before you, you shouldn't be with them to begin with. Red, Yellow, Black, Brown, White, Male, Female, Old or Young, your current lover has had a life before you. Feeling a little sting in wishing you had been the star of the story is normal, but having issues with a past lover become any more than this, then either you need to work though your shallow mindness and get over it, or move on as this will always be a thorn in the side of the relationship.

    The notion that black men all have monster cocks is a myth. I believe this myth is perpetuated by the fact that most black men are showers and not growers. Black men don't tend to grow much. Maybe gaining a half inch to an inch at most from flaccid to erection. White men tend to be growers. Being a grower is totally different. My flaccid tool is like 2.5" long and barely the thickness of a cheap hot dog. Erect is a different story. I grow in length to 8" and nearly as thick as a red bull can. I like the fact that my cock is compact when not in use. I wouldn't want to be any bigger either. I get apprehensions enough with the size I am. Including one former lover, who had had a LTR with a black Man who was much taller and broader than me. The truth in the matter is black men range in size from small to big, just like any other race. If you use the White Male as the median, the average Black sizes are 6/10th of an inch larger and Asian sizes 5/10th of an inch smaller. Not really a major difference in size.

    Though they won't admit it, even the Black guys know this. Check the casual encounters ads. Guys offering to "Ride MY Big Black Cock" almost always take their photo from underneath. This is one of the oldest photography tricks in the book to make something look larger and more ominous.

    People need to get over hangups about their lover's past. They had a life before you and you before them. Be an adult and get over it.

    xx
     
  7. just4fun

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    Well for me I've never been with a black man and honestly don't really intend to. Its not a size of cock issue its that I am in no way sexual attracted to black guys. Don't know why but I'm not never have been so I guess I will never know.
     
  8. MordsithLove

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    I am the same way J4F. I have no idea why, but ever since I was a little girl I've never been attracted to black guys.....
     
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    AGREED! I can't even watch porn featuring black couples.

     
  10. MordsithLove

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    The irony for me is that I am half black. I won't deny a guy because he is black, just saying they're not the first to catch my attention.

    RG darker bits are hard to get comfortable with....I'm still trying to see past mine.
     
  11. obi1

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    Well there go my hopes, i'm 1/16th black lol