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Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by sweet melissa, May 9, 2007.

  1. sweet melissa

    sweet melissa New Member

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    Well here we go. I'm not sure exactly what to tell you guys about the party but here are some of the details. As you can tell if you've read many of my posts, I'm pretty uninhibited so doing something like this wasn't beyond me. I did almost back out, truth be told. The problem was organizing and coming up with some rules that would make it fun and safe for all. We were fortunate because it did end up fun and safe. Most everyone had a great time and no one took things too seriously.
    The rules were something like this: No drop-ins. Everyone had to let us know before hand that they'd be coming. No real names, although a few people got comfortable enough to use theirs. I was at a disadvantage there because it was my house and even if people didn't know my real name, they had my address. Oh well, that's the price I had to pay. About 15 or16 people attended, three from sexual forums, the rest from another forum my boyfriend uses and some from word of mouth.
    No cell phones, no cameras no leaving the room with anyone else. No touching another person without consent or invitation. No kissing, no oral, anal or vaginal penile penetration. So you could, for example, play with some woman's pussy with your hand or insert a finger only. No sex toys either, but we did have a demonstration of a couple after the party was over and some guests stayed to chat and have a coffee. That may have been as much fun as the party.
    I started things off by offering wine, soft drinks and snacks in limited amounts, as well as playing adult movies with lots of masturbation scenes. I muted it and put some cool jazz on the CD player. Lights remained on the whole time, and fairly bright. After all ,the idea was to masturbate with or in front of others. No action was allowed until everyone had arrived.
    It took some time to get started. Everyone sort of sat around talking and waiting for someone else to start. Finally one guy got up, removed his trousers, stood on an ottoman and began stroking himself, showing off to the rest of us. Never to be outdone, I stood next to him and started rubbing myself through my skirt. After some good natured and relentless teasing and encouragement from one of our female forum members, yes, you know who you are... I lifted my skirt and continued. Then it seems everyone got into it. There was some swapping, some solo, some mutual. One man shot his load after about ten minutes into it and spent the rest of the night watching porno (and sneaking peaks at us) and serving snacks and drinks. One woman who'd come alone (oops, I mean attended by herself) left when things got hot, saying she'd made a mistake and this "isn't quite what I had in mind."
    There was plenty of lube, tissue, baby wipes, condoms, and dental dams available, should anyone want or need them. Hot showers afterward too if one felt like it.
    After we were "done" I encouraged people to stay for coffee and chat. I even invited some who'd been staying overnight at a local hotel to stop by for a late breakfast the following morning. All who were invited to breakfast came.
    Thanks go out to nikinacky, who I met through this forum, and gave me permission to use her name, and her husband, who helped so much in planning, clean up and doing the extra wine run toward the end of the party. I still wonder what the package store attendant thought when he saw those desperate flushed faces so close to closing time. The flowers were beautiful, by the way and lasted forever. To those from this forum who attended, I hope you all had fun and thank you for your patience while we all got comfortable enough with each other. For a while there, it didn't look like much was going to happen. I'm glad it did.
    I'm not sure I'd do another one.
     
  2. heelfetish

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    Sounds like a good time! I really don't know if I'd ever be comfortable enough to go to something like that, but I congratulate and applaud whoever made it. :) It's just too bad there were no steamy photos. ;)
     
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    oohh, sounds like fun! i think i would be uncomfortable with it, but if i wasn't, id do something like that in a heartbeat! how exciting...
     
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    Missy,
    Is there anything you won't try? You weren't even uncomfortable at the beginning of the party. You were more nervous about how clean your house was and whether or not you had enough toilet paper. We're all sitting there nervous and tense and there's Melissa with her hand up her skirt and a grin on her face. Geez girl, but what a night.

    niki
     
  5. sweet melissa

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    Umm, not much I won't try is pretty accurate. I've got maybe 40 or so years left at best. I can't afford to sit around waiting on anything.
    If what's his name and I hadn't got things moving, we'd still be there. It was tough but somebody had to start off so you could get off.
    By the way, we didn't run out of tissue did we?:eyes
     
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    Touche, point taken.:eek:

    niki
     
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    That sounds really fun.
     
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    Wish I had been there!!! Anyone up for a Southern party like this?
     
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    Rose Resident Sexy Grandma
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    Well ---- DAYUM!!!

    Sounds like quite a night - and you sould like the perfect 'hostess'! congratulations on a wonderful experience!
     
  10. Kronnie

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    Mel your a cool female for sure , and your posts are always a pleasure to read....Im so happy this party happened and that all had a great time there...

    Just wish i could have atended but being thousands of miles away has its drawbacks . :(


    But when we have chatered you have always come across as a very articulat lady with an extremly warm natured personality .

    Good luck and plenty of fun and happiness in all of your adventures. ( and you should write a book hun, because you sure have some cool adventures in your life)

    From your big soft hearted friend.
     
  11. sweet melissa

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    Thanks for the kind words.

    The problem seems to be, as far as writing anyway, is that because I do so much of it at work I have no desire left by days end. Kind of like the plumber whose sink always leaks.

    I'm starting to think that some day all my foolishness and impetuous behavior may catch up with me as it has in the past (you know what I'm talking about there ;) ).
     
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    Sounds like a great party.
     
  13. Kronnie

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    Yes i do know hun....and i sure hope that it doesnt ....as you dont deserve any of that sort of nastiness , just because you enjoy life and your sexual endevurs.....maybe on day you could talk your ideas into a dictaphone and have your SO type them up on the comp for you :).....and then someone to proofread them. ...

    If you need a friend to chat with , i hope you know im there if wanted . :).as i have been before hun.

    Melissa since i have known you you have been nothing but a friend to me hun, and i hope i have been the same for you too babe.

    We have chatted in other forms , and i respect you and your friendship dearly.

    I just hope people can se the great female that you are, and not judge you.
    I am defenetly glad i took a little time to get to know you for you sweetheart. :)