Partners & SF?

Discussion in 'Sex and Relationships' started by xeniadraven, Apr 30, 2013.

  1. xeniadraven

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    Inspired by Mords thread on picture sharing, I thought it would be interesting to talk about people who are in relationships and whether or not those partners are aware of their SF membership? If so how do they feel? do they approve? jealousy? is it a secret?.....

    My OH and I are open about this place and everything I do on here he is aware of and perfectly fine with :)

    I know others arent in the same position so it would be great to hear others opinions.
     
  2. AtkCCC

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    Thats a very good question. In my case, yes to the fact that my SO knows about this site. To my knowledge she is not on here but have never asked nor would it be an issue. I do know that she is open about a few chat rooms that she visits every so often. Not a big deal to me. Again, good question and will be an interesting thread.
     
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    I could totally see how people with really rigid relationship parameters could think of the sexual discussions here as a kind of e-cheating.

    It's interesting to think about.
     
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    The boyfriend knows I'm on this site. When I first signed up, he checked it out to make sure I was making it clear that I'm taken, then he just left it to me as my "toy."
     
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    redic's a member, but he doesnt come around much. he only joined so he could read my fiction, but i save those to my hard drive anyway. i asked him the other day if he ever logged in anymore, and he said it had been so long he forgot his password, and he figured it was my place to "vent" (his word- mine would be to express myself). He was cool with it when I told him about it and said as long as it was just an outlet and i wasn't looking for anyone else then it was fine.
     
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    Mr Mittimer knows that I'm on here. He also knows that at one point, I posted photos and had some naughty time with various people.

    When we actually had video chat, 9 times out of 10, I was naked. Not showing off my lady bits but from like the shoulders up I'd be chatting. More then once my husband played along with the gents of the forum and moved my laptop screen so that I'd flash some skin.

    As you can see, he knows and is totally ok with me being on here. He looks at this place as my get away, somewhere he wont bother with because it's "mine". He doesn't want to impose even though I've let him know that he can join if he wants. :)
     
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    No significant other at the moment, on the the "to-do" list though LOL
     
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    I thought he joined first and you joined later, given your names. I assumed that "redic" was just a handle. I guess that's his actual name or some kind of irl moniker?

    Sorry if I'm being nosy.
     
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    My wife knows i'm on here, she doesn't seem to mind. I've tried to get her to sign up but she wont. I think its prolly cause she already has about 15 or so blogs that she's on. I did let her read some of my entrys though.
     
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    Mrs HW has known since day one that Im on here.....its never been a problem:)
     
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    SO caught the page open one time, gave me hell and was in the doghouse for almost a week.
    Now although not a member she occasionally lurks to read my posts.
    She will see this one and smile :)
     
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    no, i joined first. redic rogue was his gamer name when we met- he plays D&D and magic, among other RPG games. When I played with him, on the rare occasions i had absolutely NOTHING else to do.... My name was redic's girl. (I'm not a gamer, find it silly and obnoxious to be honest, but it makes him happy so i go with it from time to time.)
     
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    Okay, so it's just a name from some totally different thing brought here. Interesting.
     
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    I think that's the case for a lot of people.
     
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    I just wasn't sure. Usually a guy joins a forum and then his girlfriend/wife joins later under "[so and so]'s girl."

    So it's just interesting that it's different this time.
     
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    I bet being naked talking to all those people felt pretty hot. Even though no one could see even my head and shoulders, it felt pretty hot posting about being in Detroit while completely naked.
     
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    Sandwich, I'm still not clear....did you post pictures, or not?
     
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    No. I started a thread while I was naked...that's all...no one saw me....but writing while naked is fun.
     
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    It did feel hot. I knew all it would take was a small movement and they could see me. It was a big tease and I really loved it. :p