So my girlfriend and I are having some troubles with our second life. To premise this she is about 20 weeks pregnant and I have a 9.5 inch erection. We haven't had sex not a long while because sex is painful for her. We both love sex and love the connection it brings us but because she is in so much pain we have to been able to kindle that connection on a regular basis. I was hoping to get some advice on some things (positions toys foreplay etc) that may make it more comfortable and even more pleasurable for her. And of course I acknowledge the fact it may just not be possible until after birth due to increased swelling etc. Does anyone have any advice or information that we may benefit from?