overstimulation

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  1. mousse

    mousse New Member

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    so alot of times when i go down on someone... after working the clit for awhile she asks me to stop because of overstimulation and so I cant get her to orgasm.. anyways to avoid this? should i just go slower or move down and work on the lips? whats a good way to manage her and keep her just stimulated enough to reach orgasm?
     
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    Mix things up, sometimes gentle other times more firm licks. Also lick around the clit a little not just directly on it. Explore inside with 2 fingers at same time.
     
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    could aslo use your fingers on her clit and your tongue on her cervix (sp?). ;p
     
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    that'd have to be a pretty long tongue :whoa

    I suggest taking time - start slow, in a teasing fashion. Make her squirm for more, rather than giving her all the stuff right from the start. Make oral sex on her an erotic venture.. spend time on her thighs, her belly... Your focused clitoral action should come only toward the ending... when she is writhing with pleasure. And then, watch her movements - interpret her body language - so you know if she likes to orgasm with hard sucking or gentle tongue flicks.
     
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    Yrea mix it up. Yes a woman can get overstimulated. The reason is if the brain picks up on the stimulation it can turn off that sensation. usually it takes 15 minutes for the brain to block a certain stimulation. You should be able to get her to cumm by then. If not you should try something different. Make sure you are stimulating the clitoris. You can also try different speed and different hardness on the clitoris. Sometimes just a little more speed or more pressure with the tongue will do wonders.
     
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    Rose said
    I suggest taking time - start slow, in a teasing fashion. Make her squirm for more, rather than giving her all the stuff right from the start. Make oral sex on her an erotic venture.. spend time on her thighs, her belly... Your focused clitoral action should come only toward the ending... when she is writhing with pleasure. And then, watch her movements - interpret her body language - so you know if she likes to orgasm with hard sucking or gentle tongue flicks.

    The same here, I like to run my hand and lips all over Her body
    and I keep her legs wide open so I can kiss and feel her right to
    her lips without directly stimulating Her pussy until She is squirming
    and trying to get me to lick it.
    Always take time to do it right as Rose said.:sf
     
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    I use alot of foreplay. I dont just jump into it. I think hitting the clitoris after stimulating everything else is a good idea. I'll still continue to tease even while i'm there. I suppose that's the most I can do for now. Thanks guys!
     
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    Hey Rose is this tongue long enough to reach the cervix

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    Holy crap, my friend. You must be a hit with the ladies.
     
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    Na. My winning personality is what the women like the most.
     
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    HOLY SHIT, STEVE!!! Wow, wow, wow! Will you marry me? :eek
     
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    Don't get to excited Cowboy Lover It is a fake pic. I will post a real tongue pic to see how you like the real thing.
     
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    Dang, did ya hafta ruin it for me, Steve, did ya really hafta?:(
     
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    I am good with what I got.

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