Oversized toy play

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  1. Ryan1026

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    My gf loves the feel of oversized toys, I have only played with them a little bit in the past, but I know how to work my way up to using them for the most part... I was wondering if any of you girls out there who enjoy this as well might have some suggestions and or tips on great techniques for me to make sure she gets the great experience she wants from this.

    Thanks.....
     
  2. Master9804

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    U have any pics of her trying the oversized toys?
     
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    Are we talking Pandas and poodles or something else?
     
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    I recently mentioned in another thread that I wanted to start trying this... but am too concerned about the issue of permanent stretching (and am not sre whether I have anything to be worried about there or not).
     
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    Define "oversized".
     
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    Personally I'm just thinking of dildos/vibes that are about 5cm in girth
     
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    I am not talking anything crazy, she is only 5'6" 120lbs and is looking to play with toys that would be considered above average for dildos/dongs for example <link removed> her body doesn't allow for much deeper than 8" but what really gets her off is 3" or so girth that can really fill her up. We are not really worried about stretching since it not going to be an everyday adventure.
     
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    3" in girth isn't anything. Tell her to try 6" girth. Oh, and make sure she nows the difference between diameter and girth. :lol
     
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    Reminder: Please don't post links to adult store merchandise.

    Thankyouandhaveaniceday!
     
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    Doh :eyes Well in my case what I meant was 5-6cm in diameter.
     
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    Hey Cora, got a any good tips or tricks ? 5-6 cm is exactly the size i am talking about, over here that is 2.4" which is what she is looking for... Thanks
     
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    I suggest starting with smalled dildos at first, getting her turned on. And when shes ready and if she needs lube use it, and slowly work in the bigger toy. Simple enough, just dont jump right in to shoving the big boy in haha. Sometimes after sex with my gf we play with toys that are "a bit" bigger then me..
     
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    I lost a Malibu Barbie Doll in my assssk my cousin Cindy. Hey.. it was 12 inches!
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    HOLY SHIT! :eek
     
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    Did Ken know what his girl was up to?:lol
     
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    Ken probably pushed Barbie in.
    He always was an ass.
     
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    Hey, sorry I didn't get back to you. I've been a bit pre-occupied lately. Don't have any tips yet, it's been years since I did anything like it. All I know is that it takes patience to get in, and you get into things kinda slowly. Not as easy as they make it look in the porno's, but nothing ever is :lol I remember that if you're not getting anywhere with it, an easier method of insertion is to hold the toy standing it vertically with the base of it on the bed/floor... to allow her to lower herself onto it.

    I'll get to this myself again. I'm partnerless again at the moment (temporary set back I'm sure :ugh), and it's not one of those things I'd feel like doing by myself.
     
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    I have happily watched a female friend take 12 " length and around 7" girth before.

    And i dont think that really ever spoils a woman inside, because i have known other females take large dildos and still be able to enjoy their partners fully.
     
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    I'm ordering online in another window right now... and having to sift through all the different sizes in a catalogue. There's one there that's 3.5inches in width. I had to use a conversion program to figure out how much that is in cm... and it's 8.89cm. That's nuts :nerv
     
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    I have a toy that is called "big boy." When my husband and I first start messing around I am so tight that it is hard for even 2 fingers to be inserted....but after a few minutes I am able to take in all of big boy with no problems. And I have a much stronger orgasm with the thicker toys. And it sometimes takes my breath away. :)