Our Personal Flaws

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  1. Kermit

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    What flaws do we admit to processing? And if you're gonna say something like "i'm too good in bed!" or "i care too much!" please include an explanation :)

    I spend too much time on SF lol jk I've got severe ADD
     
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    I've been told I suffer an excess of opinion. I think the amount of opinion I have is just right. I might concede that my timing and choice of when to express said opinion might need adjusting now and then however.

    I could list plenty more but it would merely be depressing.
     
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    Sometimes look for validation from the wrong people. Even when its not warranted.

    And that ole thinking before speaking. That's gotten me into a few situations before.
     
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    I just saw your siggy, Woody. Nice! :lol

    My personal flaws include opening my mouth and inserting my foot, rushing into things headlong before I think about the consequences, and being too hard on myself. Oh, and I eat too much and smoke da chronic, not necessarily in that order.
     
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    (taking a bow) just paying some homage :D
     
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    Trying to please everyone and keeping peace between all.
     
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    Too quick to knock peoples teeth down their throat when attacked...both online and in person, but at least I get to feel blood in person.
     
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    -I am seriously absent-minded. I also forget people's names. All the time.
    -I am too horny for my own good. I suppose I share that one with quite a few people here. People at work has come to realize this due to things I have said rather done (frankly, I haven't done anything).
    -Although I know I can be a bit defensive when girls say "men are such-and-such", I actually (in practical terms) prefer women in almost every way. As friends, lovers, by-my-side-on-the-train-sitters :p you name it
    -I say "I'm sorry" just a bit too often, but then, this is better than many people who can't say those words at all. Sorry for pointing it out. Dang! :lol
     
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    I have a hard time remembering people's names - even those I had worked with for years.
    Sometimes my mind just goes blank. I maintain a phone system with several thousand phone numbers and I have no problem remembering people's phone numbers but not their names.
     
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    My Personal flaw is my confidence level is pretty low. hince the reason for this long dry spell I'm going through. Also I think I'm just too nice and that throws me in the friend zone.
     
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    i try to see the good in people, often when it's not there.
    i'm way too sensitive and i have extremely low self esteem. i'm sure this comes from being made fun of all my life by family and friends, which brings me to the next flaw....being too nice to people because that's how i would like to be treated.

    i'm a people pleaser, often putting others above myself.
    i'm quite lazy at times and would call myself a professional procrastinator.
    ummm i like mcdonalds more than any person should
     
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    I've got social anxiety, however I've been working on it with a psychologist and I can control it a lot better now.
    Second, I'm a big procrastinator which make me seem as a lazy bum. :(
     
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    Expecting instant replies from other people to things that usually only interesting and important to me.

    Tendency to beat a dead horse.

    Fail to see some peoples flaws...until its too late.

    I'm not as interesting as I think I am...but I don't care. I like me anyway.
     
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    *My body. Stomach needs attention.. Boobs need some work and Starting to get some cellulite which isn't at all flattering on me.
    *My personality - I find it hard to forgive, I hold grudges and find it hard to trust someone.. always thinking something sinister is going on.
    *I cry a lot and don't look very attractive doing so.
    *I like to eat which is to my disadvantage
    *I probably have bi-polar disorder but am too afraid to go to the doctors as I don't want it confirmed.
     
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    on That note..I *swear * I didn't forget about you man !! :lol
     
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    LOL...wasn't referring to you, Beach. Or anybody else in here for that matter. That was an overall 'my life seems to be in the crapper' observation.
     
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    Getting friend zoned isn't a function of being too nice. It's a function of not being forward enough when you need to be. If you never assert yourself and make it clear you're looking for more, then it won't happen.

    Of course i fully understand it's easier to say this than to do it, but it doesn't make it any less factual.

    Putting the pro in procrastinate eh? :lol
    I actually heard someone say something to the tune of "hard work pays off eventually, but procrastination pays off immediately." :D
     
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    Yea I guess your right, maybe that has to do with my confidence level also. Oh well, I'll find a good hearted woman one day. I just have to stop looking so hard. Lol
     
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    You'd be surprised what (or who) turns up when you stop looking. :) Letting things happen of their own accord can work.
     
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    i will reply this to this...........tomorrow :D