Other names?

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  1. 10_3XL

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    There's a tendency for people to have "pet" names (nicknames, cutesy names, "private" names, whatever you want to call them) for their partners. Not everyone does this - I have heard some people say they are belittling or demeaning.

    I'm curious - who here uses an other name with their partner? Do you have a special nickname for them? Do you use something like "babe," "sweetie," "honey," or another diminutive?

    Personally, I have no special/different name for D, nor do I use any diminutives with her (they irritate her). She frequently calls me "Mrzout" - because apparently I'm a grouch much of the time. :p
     
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    My wife affectionately calls me "cheap bastard." She is so cute when she yells in from the computer room " Hey, can I order another dildo you Cheap Bastard?" Or when talking on the phone she'll say "yes Sue, I'd love to go to lunch with you, but I'll have to ask the Cheap Bastard first." Always putting my wishes first makes me feel so special!
     
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    I think everyone knows the names I call the men in and out of my life.

    Always called Snoopy "snoopy". One time I used his name it felt strange.

    I'm not big on nicknames (baby/sweetie).
     
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    How about squirty then?
     
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    Me and wifey go with honey, babe, and sugar. Others come up from time to time and while it may seem xegrading to.others out side the relationship, there is always a private joke behind them and we laugh at people's responses
     
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    My friend from work called me squirt.
    He's 15 years older so it kind of fit that way too.
     
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    some were from me, others at me.
    sweets, sweetie, babe, honey, beautiful
     
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    When I talk about the boyfriend, he's the boyfriend, not my boyfriend. I don't know how I got that habit. Also, he has a nickname that everyone calls him--except me. I call him by his formal name. He finds this slightly cold, and therefore sexy. I've also called him Vlad, as in Vlad the Impaler.

    He calls me Babe, mainly. He's proud that he has always pronounced my Russian name perfectly, so he calls me by that. He also calls me Kiska sometimes. It means kitty in Russian, including that kind of kitty. Also The Little Snow Girl, or Ice Woman.
     
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    Darling, ma cheriƩ or mia cara depending on my mood. For my wife the responses differ because of the gender: darling, mon cheri or mio caro . Sex can be initiated along equivalent lines.
     
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    We call each other Babe, and he also calls me Baby and Beautiful. This makes me want to make up another name for him.
     
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    I call her "goddess of wisdom and love" ... And respectfully insist she refer to me as either "god of thunder" or "el conquistador".. :D
     
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    So, you and Slutty are (not so) secretly Thor and Freyja? :p
     
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    am g or big g by my friends other variants are ginge, ginger, Captain... its only my family that calls me by my name.

    beloved is called beloved or babe :)
     
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    Epic.
     
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    JohnW calls me his "Little Vixen". Also, just "Mommy" around the kids.
     
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    Yeah I just call her babe a lot. Sometimes just " sexy"
     
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    I call her "Hun" in front of other people but when we are alone it is babe baby honey. There were others in the early super passionate part of our relationship that I am sad to say I don't remember now.