please bare with me people Ok, some background... became sexually active when I was 18. Unfortunately, he was a one night stand Since then, I've been with 5 other guys, never received an orgasm with any of them. Masturbation I tried a few times and never used to get any 'results', even with toys. granted I didn't try but one toy, but wasn't very interested. been with my hubby for 7 years now, and he has tried just about everything on his part to make it happen, but no. I had basically given up, and settled into the fact that I was "broken". Recently, I have had the feeling our sex life has become a little mundane, and it scared me into wanting to change my ways of thinking and try again to have an orgasm. Been researching relentlessly online for helpful tips... information on female orgasms can be so scattered and cryptic, it's rediculous. Trying to find out what an orgasm is supposed to feel like, what signs I should be looking for, etc and not coming up with definitive answers really. I keep seeing references to the uterus tightening up. Anyway, I brought myself to my 1st clitoral orgasm yesterday (or what I think was one), but there was no tightening of the uterus, just an intense feeling everywhere thats hard to describe that came in fast waves. Took probably 10 minutes or so to get there, hard to keep on the right spot I guess? Does this sound like an o to you or is it just wishful thinking on my part?