http://www.reuniting.info/science/sex_in_the_brain I ran across the above article which describes chemical processes in the brain during orgasm. Particularly, it talks about the dopamine high and subsequent crash. "To summarize thus far, orgasm leads to a drop in dopamine and a rise in prolactin. Both of these lead to multiple behavioral and emotional symptoms, which, in our experience, can arise over the next two weeks. During this time, behavior may change for the worse. More importantly, lovers' perception of each other can shift dramatically for the worse. If we feel depleted, our partner will seem overly demanding; if we feel needy, our partner will seem selfish and uncaring. Bickering and emotional separation then lead to further friction. Of course, few people ever avoid orgasm for two weeks. Most of us ride this roller coaster over and over, never really experiencing balanced brain chemistry - or the easy harmony that accompanies it." They talk about the post-orgasm hangover, the Coolidge effect, etc. Basically all saying that orgasms degrade relationships. After each orgasm, there is a dopamine crash and the partner doesn't seem so appealing any more, and one prefers a new partner. I can kind of understand this for men, who fall asleep after ejaculation. But it says that the same happen to women. Not immediately, but in a few days. Do you ladies feel this way? Do you grow more tired of your partners a few days after orgasm? Do you feel like you need to keep cumming to ward off the dopamine crash? Interesting stuff. I thought it was always good to give the girl orgasms... now I'm very confused lol.