Orgasms as you get older

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  1. evman

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    I am 50 and my wife has told me I still have the sex drive of a sixteen year old. What I have noticed in the last six months or so is that my orgasms seem to last longer and are a little more intense. I was wondering if any other guys have experienced the same thing as they got older.
     
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    I'm in my 30s and am definitely hornier and more liberal than I've ever been.
     
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    If a man takes longer to reach orgasm, particularly if he rides the plateau of nearly-but-not-quite coming, the end orgasm will be bigger and more intense. I have used some Tantric techniques for a number of years to enhance my orgasms, and maybe with age and experience you are able to ride the plateau phase of arousal longer than when you were younger.

    I liken my pre-Tantric orgasms to being more like a genital sneeze, whereas now I have the real thing.
     
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    maybe it's the size of your penis..?
     
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    Give some credit to your wife too. I don't think I've ever had orgasms quite as intense as those I have now either, but when I masturbate (which isn't often) I don't think the orgasms are as strong as they once were. Maybe the two of you are just starting to really click. ;)

    Then again, it's hard to compare the intensity of anything now to what it was decades ago.
     
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    I've seen a big change from 60 to my now 68. Not as strong and takes a lot more effort.
     
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    I used to have multiples. As in 4 or 5.

    Now, I haven't had many multiples, and when I do, it may be two!

    However, now, they are by far the most incredibly intense orgasms! I almost wonder if all my 'multiples' are coming in one big BANG! :whoa I have had several times that I seriously thought I might lose my friggin' mind! And they seem to last so very long!
     
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    My fiance actually just started experiencing this. He used to say that his orgasms were only centralized within his genital region. This used to shock me, because my orgasms are really intense and they affect my whole body.....I really used to feel sorry for him because his sounded really sad compared to what I was feeling. So anyway, we had sex on Thursday and after he came, he just layed there for like fifteen minutes....And, we talked about it, and he said that this time he felt it all over and that it was much more intense, not just on his penis. Anyway, it's been like that all weekend, and I think that rocks. But, we seem to think that it's been a product of his physical exertion. He works out a lot, so he thought that perhaps that was the reason.
     
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    I,ve had sex with a really old guy and his erection with the help of that little yellowish tablet was very strong and lasting. When he climaxed / orgasimed not one single drop of cum came out.He said the feeling was intense and that previously he had masturbated with the same result. He is the only "oldie" I've been with so he may be an exception? Seems like that old saying "the lights are on but nobody is home".
     
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    My SO has also noted that I seem to be hornier now than I was as a younger man. I'm not taking Viagra or any other enhancements, but my orgasms seem as intense as ever, though the volume of my ejaculations doesn't always seem to be as great as they were when I was a younger man.
     
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    I have that happen frequently (age is 67). The amount of cum has little effect on the enjoyment/intensity of the orgasm. Is he by any chance taking any prostate medications?
     
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    Igor After your posting I was curious so I asked. The answer is Yes! He medicates with Tamsulosin ( Flo-Max). As you have described he says the feeling is just as intense, cum or no cum!
    He is older than you but stil gets the urge now and again then with my help and the assistance of Cailis he performs as an 18 year old!
     
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    OK Peta. I am also on Flomax as well as Avodart. Definetly a lot lower semen output as a result. I don't have ED problems (yet).....:D
     
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    Between 30 and about 58 orgasms generally do get alot more intense than in your 20's, but then again you cant go as many times as you once would have been able to.. but hey, 2 Big ones versus 4 in a row of just normal orgasms, could be fun? altho im many years from experiencing it.. but wouldnt it be great if they could have been that intense from day 1?
     
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    Age 61 here. My orgasms are harder to achieve but are better than ever.
     
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    At 40 my sex drive is just as intense as when I was 18 and I think I've learned how to achieve better orgasms through practice over the years.

    Staying in shape and having a healthy sex life with a loving partner certainly helps.
     
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    I'd worry about who that 16 year old is she's comparing you to. ;-)
     
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    At 51, mine are still pretty intense except in the morning. When we have morning sex, my orgasm is more extended, but not very intense. Any other time of the day, they are as intense as they ever were. Unfortunately, my wife's favorite time of the day for lovemaking is morning. Oh well, I'll take it.

    Damn, there are sure a lot of us old people here!
     
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    at 32, my hornyness has increased in the last 2-3 years. my orgasms are much intense.. but not as many multiples as i used to. my other half, 35 years old, is much more adventurous now and lasts a little bit longer than before.