OK, so my wife was watching some lifetime movie or similar and while I was sitting on the chair doing some things on the computer, mostly reading Sexual Forums, the guy and woman hooked up and you saw the implied orgasm at the same time. So I say, come on, hardly anyone has an orgasm at the same time and she agreed but it happens in the movies all the time. And we all know movies are fake, be it tv movies, regular movies or porn. When I have sex, no matter if it was someone I dated before marriage or my wife, her orgasm is the first and most important thing for me. Then I get off. But there have been times when I didn't last as long as they did. I know with my wife, we can both be worked up and it seems like she's not ready but I cum and just because I cum, it sends her over the edge. But mostly, the orgasms are not at the same time and are far apart. So I wanted to know, what about all of you. Do you actually have mutual orgasms? Often times? Rarely? Never? Do you try and time it that way? Is it a goal? For us, it's not important at all. She cums, then I cum and if it happens at the same time fine, if not, fine as well.