orgasm

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  1. matt4265

    matt4265 New Member

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    hi everyone,

    tonight i was at my girlfriends house, we are sort of beginners at the whole relationship thing.

    so we got kissing and things, when i started fingering and playing with her clit, so we were doin that for bout 15 mins, when she pulled back and said that all her muscles were tensing, she didnt know why.

    Was this an Orgasm??
     
  2. Barbwire

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    I don't think there will be any question in her mind when she has an orgasm. I think she was just starting to respond, that's all. You really should tell her to masturbate to orgasm a few times so she knows what buttons to tell you to push. IMO
     
  3. Bluesy

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    Agree with CL :tup There's no way a woman can not know when she orgasms...it's like falling over a cliff into pure ecstasy. Completely unmistakable.
     
  4. Nuggets

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    Maybe she was CLOSE to an orgasm. Hmm.
     
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    Nuggets said

    Very close indeed, If you had intensified the fingering She would have.

    Hiker
     
  6. HardRocker

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    Yep, sounds like she almost had the big O. Maybe next time she can go all the way.
     
  7. backsidefun

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    she probably just was on the verge but wasnt ready to release fully.
     
  8. Puss_in_boots

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    Out of curiosity, hasn't your girl ever masturbated before? If so, she should definitely know what it feels like to have an orgasm.
     
  9. matt4265

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    no she has never masturbated so she is new to all of this,

    thanks for your comments