[Ask a Girl] Orgasm upon penetration

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  1. Godiva

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    Who among the beautiful women of these sexual forums orgasm upon penetration?

    Does it happen every time?
    Do you know why?
    Were you always that way?
    Does it take work to be like that (a lot of planning)?


    I'm just new to sex but from never cumming from a guy regardless what he did, to coming when he touched me with his hand, to coming when he used his mouth, to coming when he used his hand (on my button) and penis at the same time, to being a bluetooth (my nick name for a hands free kit-ty ie- me). No hands at all, just penis in vagina sex....I think this might be in the cards for me if possible, probably in the distant future.

    I would love to not last so long (i last about an hour-ish with no hands i think, i don't time it)! I would love for him to enter me and me to cum. So if anyone has advice if this can be achieved or if it's just a personality type thing how every girl is different, please share :)
     
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    I've heard of women supposedly doing it but I just don't see how it's possible. I've been EXTREMELY worked up where I feel like I'm going to explode if I don't stuff something in my pussy NOW and then he'll enter and I quickly cum, but it's not like penis+vagina=Insta Cum, if that was the case, I'd be sticking his cock in me far more often then I already do.

    Sorry I can't give you any advice, I just find the whole instant orgasm upon penetration bullshit. If anything, it's more mental then physical. If any woman's hand them, by all means, correct me. I'd love to hear a true account of it. :)
     
  3. Kermit

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    closest i've ever been to that, is when i first, like absolute first time i penetrated Holly, i felt a rush of fluid come out upon insertion
     
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    Its happened to me but I'm a guy. LOL.

    It's happened to my wife but only after i had brought to the edge and backed off repeatedly in foreplay. She was begging for penetration and once I did she exploded.
     
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    Hi Mitt,that is possible but while I have a few reasons how I am not 100% sure this is it. I met one who did just as I penetrated her and it blew my mind, and my load pardon me but yes, that fast. During the day lots of hugs, I whispered how she looks gorgeous, how great it feels having her in my arms, compliments, but that was easy, this was all true to me.
    She LOVES my massages and during the day a little back rub here and there, a full one in the evening, and started working the other important parts, sucking her breasts, touching her all over and where she needed it a lot. She was going nuts after several minutes and once I went in she came after 3 thrusts, I was not far behind. She is a very sexual woman and that helps a lot.
     
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    My wife does this almost every time we have sex.

    When I asked her if she knew why, she answered, "Because I love you."

    She said, "No". I am her first one she's done this with.

    Nope. She said, "You just have to fuck the right guy."

    Expanding on my answer, once or twice she's had about 3 orgasms before I went "balls deep" in her. The first when my cockhead first entered her, the second when I was halfway in and the third time was when I finally reached her deep spot.
     
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    I think this is mainly a porn thing. I've seen stories that say, "She began to climax almost before he was fully inside her," and so on. Sounds nice, I suppose.

    When he first enters me, it feels so good that sometimes I think it's going to go straight into an orgasm. But I always need at least a little more before I do it. I don't think it ever takes me an hour, but maybe that's because it's never really just penis in vagina sex. We're always doing something, even when it's hands free. Rubbing myself against him, or my nipples rubbing against him, or shifting the angle, or caressing each other, or talking dirty, or sucking tongues, or...

    Er, you get the idea. Even if you find ways to make it less than an hour, it still doesn't have to be instant either. It's very pleasurable along the way too, yes?
     
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    Absolutely it is (nice, that is)!!

    When my wife started doing this when we were first having sex, I freaked. We weren't sure what was going on, but every time I entered her, she was overcome with emotion and just started uncontrollably crying.

    After a few more tries, we finally figured out she was indeed cumming.

    Bingo! My wife said the same thing. 80% of orgasms start happening between your ears, not your legs. If we do enough foreplay (especially if it's mostly oral/clitoral and no fingering), her body switches to the "need to be filled" mode and once I start entering her, her body feels like it just goes into auto-pilot. (Sometimes she can also do it without the foreplay)
     
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    Meee- yes i do enjoy the journey, but i think it would be fun for it to just happen once! And to have a quickie when we don't have time, we have never....ever (ok like once) had a quickie. (and i didn't come in that quickie, which would be cool if i did but ok that i didn't.

    I've heard many woman say that it happens to them i was beginning to think it was the rule and not the exception to the rule. A few times if i went over a week without any attention down there i get there realllly fast, like 20 minutes, but i rarely go that long without any action ;). Actually that was the first time i came without hands.


    I'm disappointed i thought i'd hear someone chime in and say it happens to them personally. I guess i'll be patient you never know who hasn't read this thread yet!

    RawDog- i think i like your reply the best. Your wife has the best answers. Just guessing but did you guys wait till marriage?

    That story is magical.

    I need to work on relaxing a little bit to come earlier, i take far too long, though admittedly we're pretty crap at foreplay...which is probably mostly my fault actually....
     
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    I'm trying to convince my wife to register and set up an account for herself here, but you'll have to be settle for her answering through me for now.

    Thanks! This is a somewhat long story, but we were best friends for 16 years before we had sex. We got married about a year after we started fucking. There was a lot of pent up sexual energy that needed to be released. :)

    It really is.

    Like I said earlier, my theory is the build up. My wife is similar to you in that she wants me in her as soon as she gets turned on, but I can't rush in because of my girth.
     
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    Yeh i only just lost my V card in the last 6 months or so. I'm a newbie...haha.

    i just read an FML about someone who discovered they were one of the "lucky" people to have an orgasm in yoga class.....haha!

    Now that's called an easy orgasm!
     
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    What's an FML?
     
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    FML = Fuck My Life

    It's a website where people post things that make them go "sigh..fuck my life"
     
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    Ahh... Ok, thanks
     
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    I used to know a chick, as part of her, for some reason her body would go into spontaneous orgasm, not something she controlled or invited, but she'd be in mid conversation and just orgasm for some reason
     
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    Sounds like PGAD:

    Persistent genital arousal disorder - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

    Did she seek treatment? Any idea how she dealt with it?
     
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    its all about foreplay.
     
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    I can orgasm on penetration sometimes. It actually happens if I'm still not really wet - my vagina seems more sensitive then. I feel silly when it happens but luckily it's not usually strong enough to tire me so I can keep going and have a clitoral one later.
     
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    Since you mentioned about lubrication, it got me thinking; How much does the pleasure pain thing come into play when he first enters you? Does this only happen with certain types of guys? How multi-orgasmic are you to begin with?

    Your post made me curious now on how much you and my wife have in common.

    By the way, this is absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about. This is actually the highest form of compliment you can give us by cumming so quickly.
     
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