My own imagination playing out a fantasy while stroking my shaft is my time tested favorite way. Is that what you're asking? You girls have more intricate ways to pleasure yourselves.
The ability to totally lose myself in fantasy is the most important aspect for me. Then my fingers just do their own thing.
You and your man are in the throes of passion: He's calling out your name, quickening his thrusts, breathing fast and loud. You know he's ready, but he knows you're not. He tries harder, but his impatience just distracts you from your lustful pursuit — and another pleasure peak bites the dust. "The story of my sex life," says Julia Styron,* 28, a graphic artist in Portland, ME. That is, before it underwent a revolution after her close girlfriend — who could have seismic orgasms from a whisper in the ear — spilled her sexual secrets. "I couldn't believe what I was hearing," recounts Styron. "But after putting her tips into action, I started climaxing just from fantasizing about my guy." Inspired, Cosmo set out to find a group of these very practiced peakers — women who can orgasm at the drop of his dime — and ferret out their secrets of quick-and-easy coming. Here, their moan-and-groan mantras.
Why no toys? I almost always use them to masturbate but, I can also get off just using my fingers if I am reading erotica or watching porn.
