[Ask a Girl] Orgasm question ..

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  1. Jonger84

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    The question is .. do you have an orgasm out of having sex .. or making love ??

    or by rephrasing ,can you have an orgasm being with a guy or a girl you have no feelings for ?
     
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    I haven't orgasmed with a person I had no feelings for but that said doesn't mean I can't
     
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    well i've never had sex with someone i had no feelings for BUT i'm pretty sure if someone is having sex and it's enjoyable, you're pretty much going to orgasm with or without feelings
     
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    The people I had sex with and didn't have feelings for were just animalistic, careless acts and pretty much the aim was to please.. I didn't really care for myself in any which way at the time... so I didn't orgasm due to not really caring. I faked with a few just so they could stop trying to get me off and get their business over and done with.
     
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    Well .. I think that makes sense ... animalistic is the right word to describe it :)
     
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    I wonder if I could now that I know more about my body, more about how to reach my climax? But LOL not really something I want to do .. interesting thought though
     
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    I've never, ever been animalistic...... :)
     
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    Depends what you mean by feelings. I usually like the person I'm having sex with, but don't have to love them.
     
  9. Alwayslearningsex

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    One example of total lack off feelings except for the physical ones: hiring a prostitues, a call girl, escort.
     
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    Exactly!
    No feeling sex is only half sex but at times can be such a relief just to be indulging the beast within :D
     
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    Not my best option but that's how I started in my 20's, extremely shy around women in those days, and it took care of that beast you talk about, it was always there. Still is so far.
     
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    I have had sex with prostitutes or escorts at different times in my life, but I always liked the women I was with (most escorts are likeable women). When I liked them and when they seemed to be enjoying it, it made it quite enjoyable. When they orgasmed, and that happened quite a lot, it made it better. The latter observation: genuine orgasms by a prostitute with a man who's paying to have sex with them, shows the original question to be a moot point. And to set the record straight, a genuine orgasm with genuine clitoral sensitivity afterwards, or even ejaculation (had a couple of prostitutes ejaculate), is undeniably the real thing.

    Later in life I did some consulting work for an escort who was attractive enough, but far from the most beautiful woman in my city. But whenever we went out together for a coffee or something, every man's eyes followed us. Through her work she oozed sex, and men picked up on that. She knew it too!