orgasim

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  1. sherrymyra

    sherrymyra New Member

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    I wasnt sure about posting here but finally have decided what the heck.

    I have never been able to have have orgasim with a man. I mean for years I didin't have one at all. one of my first sexual experiences I started feeling something wonderful that then at the same time started thinking, NO, I can't do this because I can get pregnant. so that was that. Never had that feeling again over 20 years. So no orgasim. So now recently I thought to try the shower masage. wow. it took some practice to get things right, but I am able to orgasim. I was hoping for something that would last like forever because it felt so good. Unfortually it only lasts a few seconds really. It seems like I desentisise, if not acted on quickly and then after need to take a week or two off to to be able to do it again. If I don't do it quickly, there is no hope of it happening at all. I guess I am happy it happens at all but wish I could do this every day.
     
  2. Bluesy

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    I'm not sure I understand what you're saying. Do you want the orgasm to last longer than a few seconds? They ordinarily last less than a minute, and then it can vary somewhat from woman to woman. I don't know of any way to make an orgasm last longer. If what you want is a multiple orgasm, only a small % of women (very lucky women!) actually experience multiples. But that doesn't mean you'll never get to experience one; sometimes you just need a different sort of stimulation, or more experience, or it will be one of those things that surprises you someday.

    Women aren't like men, we can lose sensation on our way to an orgasm very easily. Just do whatever works for you. It's certainly not a constant with me...I start that journey, then take a little detour, get back on the right road, then take another detour, etc. Very rarely has reaching orgasm ever been like traveling in a straight line from point A to point B. Do you fantasize while masturbating? Have you ever tried using porn?

    Because your genitals are desensitized (they feel "numb"), or because you don't get physically aroused again until a week or two has passed?
     
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    like fuck are you 36.
     
  4. Bluesy

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    No, she has 36 sexbux...her age isn't listed.
     
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    well she isn't 18 then so I'm not wasting my time helping her.
     
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    I really couldn't say...You'd be surprised at how little some people know about sex, not to mention their own body. I try to give people the benefit of the doubt when it comes to stuff like this. *shrugs*
     
  7. sherrymyra

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    Ha. Well I'm not 18 or 36. Well maybe my situtation isn't that out of the ordinary then. I do wish it was an easier process and would last longer but I guess I will be happy with what I can get. Thanks for responding.