oral to a girl

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  1. extacy

    extacy New Member

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    just to let you guys know, i am an 19 year old virgin. i'm looking for the right girl to do it with. i feel left out knowing that i'm the only virgin out of my friends. i could have lost it like 6 times but all the girls i'v been with have been hoes. n i don't like that. i'm waiting for some1 pretty and smart to do it with.

    i have one question though, should i give oral to her first or she does it to me or how does it go?
     
  2. heelfetish

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    I don't think it matters who goes first. It's not a contest, there are no scripts. Just let the mood guide you. :)
     
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    HerHubby The SF Poet Laureate
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    Ask Anonymous One! He's an expert on that subject!
     
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    I agree there is no right and wrong way to go. You might give her oral to get her off first in case you cum quickly.
     
  5. Bluesy

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    If you want to give, you give. What you don't do is expect reciprocation. People do things when they're ready to do them, and respecting that is a vital element in a healthy sexual relationship between two mature adults.

    Have fun!
     
  6. heelfetish

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    Good point, and one I didn't even think of. I guess I just assumed that when you get to that point in your relationship that you have an open line of communication.

    Listen to Bluesy, she's 100% correct. :)
     
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    Those are trade secrets mate. :lol
     
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    This is probably the best 1 line answer I have seen on this forum.:sf
     
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    melicious The Old Maid
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    There is no "SHOULD" (really) when it comes to sex. That's what makes it so damn complicated.
     
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    There is probably two shoulds, one is you should both be comfortable with each other and what you are about to do together. Second, female arousal is quite different to male arousal, and you both should work towards her getting ready, which means hugging and kissing and enjoying being naked together and maybe oral on her, if she is comfortable with it. Conversely, if she is not fully aroused, particularly if it is her first time, it is not going to be pleasant for her, indeed it may hurt.

    So I am going against the trend with two shoulds, but I will stand by my advice.
     
  11. heelfetish

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    Thank you! :)
     
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    when its your turn to go down on here.. start by licking it it slowly.. then move onto actually sucking her clit.. (the clit is the skin that flaps around) you will see it. suck it and massage it with your tongue
     
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