Hello forum members, I have had some experience, although I do not consider myself an expert, far from it, thus my inquiry. I have watched videos and read tutorials (ie. Eat Pussy Like a Champ/Learn about the g-spot, a-spot, etc.) on how to properly please a woman through oral stimulation, but even after going through all the info, I don't think I got it quite down. Here's my approach: I gently massage the pelvic region. Work the vaginal mound, the area attaching the legs and the pelvis. I kiss the area and the lips. I go slowly, realizing that rushing into it would be such a mood killer. I tease my way towards the vagina. Eventually, I would start gently by licking the clit and its hood. I would then form my mouth into a position as if I were sucking a cherry. With this position, I would suck the clitoris while trying to use my tongue to lick up and down or side to side. I would go at this for more than 5 minutes. My chin would be wet and the pussy area would be as well, but I'm not sure if my partner came or not. I'm too ashamed to ask, and maybe, they are not honest about it to prevent me from being embarrassed. I think the wetness comes about from my tongue action, so I don't think I made her come. Sometimes I would try to work my finger into the vaginal canal, while sucking on the clit, or sometimes to take a break from the clit action. I would start with one finger, making sure it is moist by licking it and inserting it downwards with the palm side facing the floor. I would use it to feel the insides and massage the walls. After a period of time, I would go with two fingers, but no more than that. I would then try to have both fingers pointed upward and give the "come to me" motion while pressing on the top floor, trying to rub against what I think is the g-spot. I don't think I have ever found it. (Side story: I had one partner that let me explore the inner walls of her vagina through fingering. I tried to search for the ever-elusive g-spot, but did not find it. My partner looked bored.) I had a partner that had a milkish fluid that was almost drying up near the entrance of her vagina. I tasted it. Not sure what it was. I thought for her to come, it would have to be moist and dripping. I had another partner, that after she rode me through various positions of cowgirl, I wanted to taste her. I stuck my tongue inside and tasted something sweet. Obviously, not as a result of any oral stimulation on my part. I read somewhere that the clit itself is not the point of stimulation but a nerve located nearby at the hood region. Is this correct? Does sticking one's tongue into a vaginal canal do much? By the way, I don't have much length, as far as the tongue goes. I have seen several porno films from Japan where the male actor would have their fingers inserted into the female performer and they would be jamming it aggressively. The female performer would eventually become very wet and she wouldn't stop dripping or her juices would fly everywhere. The male actor would sample the juices and finger her some more, and the female performer would cum again and again. I'm trying to get my partner to come, but I am intimidated that I can't even get her to this point, even once. I have even considered traveling to New York after hearing about an individual that specializes in teaching proper technique through "in vivo" (live/being present at the moment) training. Would like some feedback on this.